A short episode with Lachlan Stuart for a focused conversation on why so many men feel disconnected, even when they’re surrounded by people.

We talked honestly about why men turn to Google instead of their mates, the fear of vulnerability and the lack of emotional language many men carry.

This episode explores what it means to be seen and heard, and why that often starts with allowing ourselves to be visible.

We also reflect on men’s circles, safe spaces and the power of opening up in the right environment. If you’ve ever felt lonely in a room full of people, this conversation will resonate.

In This Episode

- Why men feel unseen even with strong friendships

- How fear of vulnerability leads to silence

- Why men turn to Google instead of real conversations

- The role of safe spaces in emotional growth

- How awareness helps men reconnect

Connect with Lachlan:

Instagram → https://bit.ly/45BMzhf

LinkedIn → https://bit.ly/4qAjXgs

Website → https://bit.ly/4sp38H2

Connect with Steve:

Instagram → https://bit.ly/3KARQhR

LinkedIn → https://bit.ly/48sw8Vj

Episode Highlights:

00:00:00 - Feeling disconnected while surrounded by friends

00:00:44 - Why men struggle to articulate emotions

00:01:03 - Vulnerability and Googling in silence

00:02:18 - Communication differences and learned habits

00:03:01 - Creating safe spaces for men to open up

00:03:41 - Men’s circles and feeling seen

00:05:20 - Learning language through shared stories

00:07:18 - Removing masks and allowing yourself to be seen

00:09:26 - Loneliness, fear and ownership

ABOUT THE PODCAST SHOW

The Noise of Life is a podcast that shares real stories, raw truths and remarkable growth. Hosted by Steve Hodgson a coach, facilitator, speaker and Mental Health First Aid Instructor.

This podcast dives deep into the “noise” we all face, the distractions, doubts and challenges that can pull us away from who we truly are.