This episode is the final stop in our self-worth series, and honestly, it felt right to end it this way.

Over the past few weeks, we’ve talked about why your worth can’t survive if it’s tied to things that change.

In this episode, I share three very real, everyday tools that have helped me stay grounded in my identity.

We talk about:

• Why the books you read matter more than you think when you’re unlearning shaky ideas about yourself

• How finding the right community can either reinforce your worth or quietly erode it

• And the importance of challenging negative thoughts instead of letting them run your life unchecked

I also recommend a few books during the episode, and I’ve listed them below if you’d like to explore them at your own pace.

Thank you for staying with me through this series. I hope it’s met you gently, and helped you anchor your worth somewhere steady.

📚 Books mentioned in this episode:

• Get Out of Your Head by Jennie Allen
• The Search for Significance: Seeing Your True Worth Through God's Eyes by Robert S. McGee
• Her True Worth: Breaking Free From a Culture of Selfies, Side Hustles, and People Pleasing to Embracing Your True Identity in Christ by Brittany Maher & Cassandra Speer
• Building on the Rock: Finding Your Identity in Christ by Peter Maiden

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Until next time 🤍