Season 2 of The Imperfect Pastor opens with an honest and often humorous look at one of the most universal pastoral experiences: criticism. From absurd complaints (like cleaning behind the toilet or questionable potluck food) to surprisingly painful comments about attire or enthusiasm for Jesus, Chad and Nate share stories that every pastor can relate to—and laugh about—before turning to the deeper emotional reality behind them.

The episode takes a serious turn as we acknowledge that criticism hurts. Because of our calling and our visibility, pastors serve in a uniquely vulnerable position. Criticism can feel like a cheap shot—especially when it comes after a sermon or reflects a misunderstanding of our motives. Drawing from 2 Corinthians 1:8, we’re reminded that even the apostle Paul experienced seasons of despair and crushing pressure. Criticism is not a sign of failure; it is part of ministry.

Listeners are encouraged to return again and again to their calling and purpose. As Aristotle famously said, “To avoid criticism, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing.” We explore how misunderstood motives can cut deeply, reflecting on Martin Luther King Jr.’s resolve to remain rooted in Jesus and refuse bitterness even in the face of injustice and personal attack. Bitterness, if left unchecked, can undermine leadership and eclipse the fruit of the Spirit.

The episode offers practical wisdom for responding well: not every criticism deserves a response, and discernment is key. Scripture reminds us not to engage in foolish arguments (2 Timothy 2:23). Sometimes the most faithful response is to acknowledge, thank, and move on—without placating, enabling manipulation, or letting others control us through disappointment.

Finally, we reframe criticism through a redemptive lens. Sometimes criticism is valid and God uses it to refine us. Other times it is unfounded and reveals more about the critic than the pastor. In every case, how we respond matters. Kindness, humility, and integrity disarm hostility and reflect Christ’s character. We close by grounding criticism, suffering, and even persecution in our union with Christ—sharing not only in His sufferings, but also in His comfort and resurrection power (Philippians 3:10; 1 Peter 4:16; 2 Corinthians 1:5).

Jesus Himself was secure in His identity and refused to be defined by either praise or criticism. That same security in Christ keeps criticism from becoming a crisis for us. The episode concludes by setting the stage for the next conversation: How do we maintain our mental health in the midst of ministry pressure and criticism?