Confused about whether to stay or leave a relationship?
In this episode of What’s Ailing Ya?, Christian counselor Elva Chase breaks down the critical difference between trauma bonding and spiritual discernment. Learn how to recognize emotional attachment rooted in harm versus God-led wisdom rooted in peace. This trauma-informed, faith-based episode helps believers identify unhealthy soul ties, release confusion, and make relationship decisions aligned with biblical wisdom, emotional safety, and spiritual clarity.

Many Christians struggle to discern whether emotional attachment is love, trauma bonding, or God’s leading. This episode offers biblical clarity, psychological insight, and peace-centered wisdom for relationship decisions.

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?

Does forgiveness mean reconciliation?
In this episode of What's Ailing Ya?, Christian counselor Elva Chase explores the biblical difference between forgiveness and reconciliation and explains why forgiveness does not require restored access. Learn how Scripture supports godly boundaries, emotional safety, and wisdom without compromising faith. This trauma-informed, faith-based teaching helps believers forgive without returning to unhealthy relationships, release guilt, and walk in peace while honoring God.

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?

Struggling to love someone who keeps hurting you? In this episode, Christian counselor Elva Chase explores unhealthy relationships and the emotional and spiritual confusion that comes with loving someone who continues to cause harm. Through a trauma-informed Christian perspective, you’ll learn why compassion can coexist with boundaries, why love does not require self-destruction, and how faith supports self-protection, secure attachment, and emotional clarity

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?