A profound exploration of the intricate relationship between Death and her younger sister, Grief, serves as the cornerstone of our discourse today. We delve into the significance of navigating these heavy themes in our quotidian existence, shedding light on the myriad ways they manifest within our lives. This conversation, while deeply personal, aims to create a sanctuary for those grappling with similar feelings, encouraging authenticity and vulnerability. As we traverse this sensitive terrain, we acknowledge that our listeners may experience triggers, and we encourage them to prioritize their well-being above all else. Together, we invite you to engage in this reflective dialogue, as we seek to understand and honor the complexities of loss and its enduring impact.

In this episode we have a triggering conversation about Death & her baby sister Grief and what it has meant to navigate that in our every day lives.

If you are struggling with grief and hearing something like this triggers you, by all means take care you first... We will be here when you get back!

So for now,

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Navigating the complexities of familial relationships can be fraught with challenges, particularly when it pertains to one's sexual orientation and the reception it receives from parents. In this episode, we delve into the profound difficulties faced by individuals who contend with unsupportive parental figures regarding their sexuality. PJ shares his personal narrative, providing extensive insight into his tumultuous experiences, while I endeavor to maintain a balanced discourse, ensuring we remain focused amidst the emotional depths of the conversation. This exploration reveals not only the intricacies of personal identity in the face of familial rejection but also seeks to connect with those who may find resonance in our experiences. How many of you can relate to these struggles? Let us engage in this vital dialogue.

In this episode we talk about the intricacies and difficulties that comes with dealing with an unsupportive parent when it comes to your sexuality. PJ goes into EXTENSIVE details about his experiences while Christopher tries to keep him from going off the deep end. How many of you can relate?

Let's Vibe!

Exploring the profound and often painful intersections of parental expectations and personal authenticity, this episode presents a raw and honest dialogue between PJ and Christopher. PJ opens up about his tumultuous relationship with his mother, whose rigid beliefs regarding sexuality have not only created distance but also a sense of inadequacy within him. The emotional weight of PJ's experiences is palpable as he recounts pivotal moments that have defined his path toward self-acceptance. Christopher's presence in the discussion acts as a grounding force, allowing for a more nuanced exploration of the topic without veering into despair. Together, they navigate the complexities of love, acceptance, and the longing for familial connection, all while acknowledging the harsh realities faced by many in the LGBTQ+ community. This episode is a poignant reminder of the importance of empathy and understanding in familial relationships and encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences of love and acceptance, ultimately fostering a sense of solidarity among those who may share similar struggles.

Takeaways:

• Navigating the complexities of an unsupportive parental relationship regarding one's sexuality can be profoundly challenging and emotionally taxing.
• The journey to acceptance within familial dynamics often necessitates immense resilience and the capacity for personal growth over time.
• Communication between parents and children about sexual orientation is crucial but can be hindered by ignorance and deeply rooted beliefs.
• The experiences shared in this episode resonate with many who have faced similar struggles in seeking acceptance from their parents regarding their identity.

Links referenced in this episode:

• waweta.podcast

Friendships in adulthood often present unique challenges and complexities that require introspection and discernment. We delve into the intricacies of what we seek from our friends, exploring the fundamental qualities that foster deeper connections and the essential attributes that define true companionship. As we navigate the often tumultuous waters of adult relationships, we uncover methods to enhance our friendships and cultivate meaningful bonds with those we cherish. Conversely, we assert a clear boundary for those who do not contribute positively to our lives, urging them to respectfully distance themselves. Join us as we engage in this profound exploration of friendship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and mutual respect in our connections.

In this episode we break down friendships as adults. When is time to walk sway from those you called your friends? What do we want from our friends and figure out ways to become better friends to those we choose.... and for all the others we got one message for y'all... GET UP OUT MY FACE!

LET'S VIBE!

Takeaways:

• The dynamics of adult friendships evolve, requiring us to reassess our expectations and commitments.
• It is imperative to establish healthy boundaries in friendships to protect one's mental well-being.
• Authenticity in friendships is essential; friends should encourage rather than judge each other's choices.
• Navigating friendships as adults can be challenging, particularly when past experiences influence current connections.

DISCLAIMER: THIS EPISODE IS VERY SEXUALLY EXPLICIT - LISTEN AT YOUR OWN RISK (WITH HEADPHONES)

This episode delves into the intricacies of sexual history, inviting listeners to explore their own experiences in a judgment-free environment. We candidly discuss our respective journeys with sexual encounters, revealing personal anecdotes that illuminate our evolving perspectives on intimacy and desire. Amidst the explicit narratives, we emphasize the importance of honesty and vulnerability, fostering a connection that encourages open dialogue about topics often considered taboo. As we navigate through our stories, we also reflect on the broader implications of sexual expression and the societal perceptions surrounding it. Join us as we embrace this safe space to share, learn, and perhaps even challenge our own notions of sexuality.

The human experience is profoundly illuminated through the lens of Christopher, a Cancer survivor whose journey embodies resilience and transformation. His narrative serves as a poignant reminder of the fragility of life and the indomitable spirit of survival. As we traverse his illuminating insights, we uncover the profound shifts in perspective that often accompany such life-altering experiences. Despite being metaphorically placed in the proverbial hot seat, Christopher's reflections on adversity and healing provide invaluable wisdom that resonates deeply. This episode is an essential listen for those seeking to understand the complexities of existence and the shared struggles of humanity. Let us delve into this enriching dialogue and embrace the power of shared stories.

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Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Sir Davis
• Beyonce
• Lunazul Vodka

Listen to KIng Christopher & Sir PJ break it down to what it is they are looking for when choosing to date. How dating has worked or didnt work in the past and how through the lessons we learned, be better at dating.

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Takeaways:

• The significance of self-awareness in the dating process cannot be overstated, as understanding oneself fosters healthier relationships.
• Past dating experiences often illuminate the need for better communication and clearer intentions in relationships moving forward.
• Recognizing personal growth is essential; lessons learned from previous relationships guide individuals towards more fulfilling connections.
• Mutual respect and accountability are crucial in any relationship, as they create a safe environment for vulnerability and growth.
• Dating requires intentionality; being aware of one's desires and boundaries leads to more meaningful connections than simply relying on chemistry.
• The journey of dating is inherently tied to self-discovery, and thus, one must prioritize personal development alongside seeking companionship.

Ask yourself... What does fear mean to me? Where does this fear come? Is it real or it imagined

• Ryan Coogler
• Rotten Tomatoes
• Michael B. Jordan

This inaugural episode of the What Are We Even Talking About? Podcast serves as a compelling introduction to the personas and perspectives of its hosts, King Christopher and Sir PJ. Emphasizing authenticity and openness, we embark on a journey of self-discovery, revealing our backgrounds, experiences, and the motivations that led us to create this platform. We aspire to cultivate an environment where profound conversations can flourish, and we welcome listeners to join us as we navigate the complexities of life together. Expect a blend of candid dialogue and insightful reflections, as we explore diverse topics with the understanding that nothing is off-limits. As we venture forth, we invite you to engage with us, share your thoughts, and become part of this evolving narrative.

Welcome to the very first episode of the What Are We Even Talking About? Podcast!

We’re just two Libras — King Christopher (you might know him from One Moment At A Time) and Sir PJ aka PJ Ryan (Creator and Cohost of Highly Melanated and The Dear You Project) — who decided to link up and create a space where real conversations can flow, laughs are guaranteed, and nothing is off-limits.

In this intro episode, we’re keeping it chill — just giving you a little peek into who we are, how this podcast came to be, and what you can expect as we figure it all out together.

Let’s vibe.