In this final episode of the SugarFreeMD After Dark series, Dr. Stacy answers the most common—and most honest—questions women ask about sex, desire, and intimacy in midlife.

If you’ve ever wondered:

• Is it normal to love my partner but not want sex anymore?
• Why does sex hurt now when it never used to?
• Why am I never thinking about sex unless someone brings it up?
• Is it normal to need lube every time?
• Why do I feel so self-conscious about my body all of a sudden?

…you are not alone—and nothing is “wrong” with you.

In this candid Q&A, Dr. Stacy breaks down what’s actually happening with hormones, tissue changes, desire shifts, body image, and nervous system stress during perimenopause and menopause. She explains why spontaneous desire often disappears, why responsive desire is normal, and how planning intimacy can actually protect connection—not ruin it.

This episode is educational, empowering, and real. It’s not medical advice, but it will give you the language and confidence to have better conversations with your doctor and your partner.

⚠️ Not G-rated. This episode includes adult topics and anatomical terms.

If you have more questions or want deeper teaching on this topic, email drstacy@sugarfreemd.com and let us know what would be most helpful.

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This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.

In Part 2 of the Sugar-Free MD After Dark series, Dr. Stacy continues the honest, no-fluff conversation about sex, desire, and hormones as women age.

This episode goes beyond the hype and misinformation online and breaks down what hormones actually do, what they don’t do, and how to use them safely—especially when it comes to painful sex, low desire, perimenopause, and menopause.

You’ll learn why dryness and discomfort are normal anatomical changes, how estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone each play different roles, and why “more hormones” is not better. This is educational, candid, and meant to help you feel informed, empowered, and confident having conversations with your partner and your doctor.

⚠️ Not rated G. Real anatomy, real talk.

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This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.

What if nothing is “wrong” with you… your body is just changing?

In this first episode of a three-part series, Dr. Stacy dives into a topic most women were never taught about: how desire and arousal actually work as we age — and why so many women feel confused, broken, or disconnected when things change.

This conversation was inspired by a recent live event for Sugar Free MD After Dark, where women asked honest, powerful questions about sex, intimacy, and what’s normal in midlife. Spoiler: a lot of what you’re experiencing is completely normal — and fixable.

In Part 1, Dr. Stacy breaks down:

• The difference between spontaneous vs. reactive desire (and why spontaneous desire naturally fades)
• Why arousal doesn’t always start in your head anymore — and why that’s okay
• The 5 domains that influence sexual desire (physical, mental, relational, cultural, and environmental)
• How stress, mental load, sleep, medications, and body changes impact libido
• Why pressure kills desire — and how desire mismatch affects relationships
• How emotional discomfort can drive overeating and impact weight loss
• Why planning intimacy doesn’t make it “fake” — it makes it possible

If you’ve ever thought:

• “I love my partner, but I don’t feel like I used to”
• “Something must be wrong with my hormones”
• “Why do I never want sex anymore?”

This episode will help you understand what’s really going on — without shame, hype, or oversimplified answers.

🧠 Important reminder: This episode is educational, not medical advice. Take what you learn here into informed conversations with your doctor.

👉 Coming next week in Part 2:
We’ll talk anatomy, hormones, vaginal health, and answer real questions from the live event — including what actually helps and what doesn’t.

📩 Questions or thoughts after listening?
Email: drstacy@sugarfreemd.com or admin@sugarfreemd.com

Free 2-Pound Plan Call!
Want to jump start your weight loss? Schedule a free call where Dr. Stacy Heimburger will work with you to create a personalized plan to lose 2 pounds in one week, factoring in your unique circumstances, challenges, and aspirations. Schedule now! www.sugarfreemd.com/2pound

This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher: www.ThePodcastTeacher.com.