Welcome back to Episode 107 of We Just Got Here Podcast 💛

This week gets REAL.

We start with life updates and Steph & Tia’s Ls and Wins of the Week before diving into a heated conversation about polyamorous vs monogamous relationships… and whether Nick Cannon’s “colony” lifestyle is chaos or clarity 👀

Then in Reddit Realness, we react to a jaw-dropping dilemma:

A woman’s husband cheats on her… and when she confronts her mother-in-law for advice, she’s told she needs to “work on her marriage.”

The twist? Her father-in-law previously had an affair too.

Is this generational enabling? Internalised marriage loyalty? Or misplaced advice?

We unpack it all.

As always, we wrap up with Adult Finds of the Week:
Tia: Fresh mint tea
Steph: PALS & getting your health checks sorted

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⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro / Life Update

17:48 - Steph’s Ls & Wins of The Week

32:35 - Tia’s Ls & Wins of The Week

53:56 - Polyamorous and Monogamous Relationships?!/ Nick Cannon & His Colony

01:17:44 - Reddit Realness: AITA for asking my mother-in-law for advice on how she dealt with her husband’s affair after she said that I needed to work on my marriage when her son cheated on me?’

01:24:44 - Adult Finds of The Week

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This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia unpack a heartbreaking dilemma about love, betrayal, and the moment everything falls apart 💔

A listener shares how, after a beautiful first Valentine’s together, she checked her boyfriend’s phone, only to discover he had been using Grindr since the very beginning of their relationship.

He insists he never physically cheated. He says it “meant nothing.” But the emotional deception? The secrecy? The double life? That’s what shattered her.

Now she’s left questioning everything:
Was it cheating?
Was he hiding his sexuality?
Can you rebuild trust after something like this?

Steph & Tia dive into honesty, identity, betrayal, and whether love alone is enough to fix what’s broken.

👇 Be honest…
Is this something you could move past? Or is it done?

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Episode 105 of We Just Got Here Podcast was supposed to be a short Patreon bonus episode… but due to a family emergency, we weren’t able to record our usual show this week.

We still wanted to give you your Thursday dose to get you through the rest of the week, so this one is a little more raw, a little more honest, and very much unfiltered.

Expect banter, dark humour, and chaotic tangents as we get into:

• An NHS rant that needed to happen
• Tia’s ethnicity conversation
• Tia’s issue with Chinese takeaways
• The Grammys
• Why there might be a private investigator after Tia 😳
• Steph’s brand new paranoia

It’s messy. It’s real. It’s slightly spiralling. And it’s very much us.

We’ll be back to regular scheduling next week. Thank you for sticking with us and being part of the Got Here Gang 💛

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This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia read a dilemma that proves the grass is not always greener… sometimes it’s just AstroTurf 😭💀

A listener writes in after leaving her husband for another man who convinced her she “deserved better,” promised the world, and had her mentally picking out kitchen appliances and baby names. Fast forward a few months and… the man has vanished, the future has evaporated, and karma has clocked in early 😳

Steph & Tia break down how to strategically spin the block, when “deserving better” turns into self-sabotage, and why we should maybe stop trusting people who sell dreams with bullet points.

It’s messy, it’s honest, and it’s giving life lesson wrapped in chaos.

👇 Be honest…
Is this karma, or just a very loud reality check?

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Episode 104 of We Just Got Here Podcast is unhinged in the best way 😭💀

Steph & Tia kick things off with their Wins of the Week before diving headfirst into chaos, including a wild neighbour group chat scandal that absolutely nobody was prepared for (yes… that kind of scandal).

The girls also get into:

• The internet’s obsession with vabbing
• Why the dating scene feels completely cooked
• The rise (and menace) of AI videos
• Hyper-femininity, dressing for yourself, and rejecting the male gaze
• Tia’s emotional vulnerability, Steph’s maid-of-honour dreams, and classic oversharing

Things take a turn during Reddit Realness, where a listener asks how to recover after her boyfriend gave her a serious case of the ick 💔

As always, the episode wraps with Adult Finds of the Week and peak We Just Got Here banter.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
08:28 – Steph & Tia’s Wins of the Week
10:04 – Neighbour Group Chat Update: ShtGate Edition*
26:03 – Let’s talk about vabbing
35:31 – The state of the dating scene
43:04 – The rise of AI videos
46:58 – Hyper-femininity & not dressing for the male gaze
50:45 – Is Tia scared of emotional vulnerability?
53:33 – Steph as the toxic maid of honour
01:08:23 – Reddit Realness: “My boyfriend gave me a serious case of the ick”
01:29:50 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of the Week:

Tia: https://shorturl.at/hsesP

Steph: Available at your nearest Starbucks

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In this week's Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia unpack a dilemma that left us genuinely stunned 😳

A listener reconnects with a man she’s known for years and goes on what should be a normal third date… until she leaves the cinema to discover missed calls, texts, and DMs from his entire family and friends, all panicking because he wasn’t home by 8:30pm.

Things get even more awkward when he calls his mum on the spot, and she starts shouting down the phone. Instead of acknowledging how intense it all felt, he doubles down and insists it’s just a close family who “care about him.”So the question is 👀

Is this just a strong support system… or a massive red flag?

Steph & Tia break down boundaries, family dynamics, and when “close” crosses into too much.

👇 What would YOU have done?

Timestamp:

0:00 - Intro

06:50 - Dilemma

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Episode 102 of We Just Got Here Podcast gets painfully relatable 😳💔

Steph, Tia and Cashh kick things off with their Ls & Wins of the Week before diving into a big dating question:
Are people actually dating you… or the idea of who you could become?

The conversation unpacks what it feels like to realise someone is invested in your potential rather than who you are right now, and why that dynamic can quietly destroy relationships.

Things get even deeper during Reddit Realness, where an OP asks for advice after realising the man she’s dating only seems to like the version of her he imagines, not the real her.

As always, expect honesty, humour, and classic We Just Got Here chaos, wrapped up with Adult Finds of the Week.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
03:16 – Steph, Tia & Cashh’s Ls & Wins of the Week
42:14 – Are you dating for potential?
58:09 – Reddit Thread: How does it feel to be dated for potential?
01:13:06 – Reddit Realness: “He only likes the idea of me”
01:27:46 – Adult Finds of the Week

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Steph: https://shorturl.at/YP0Q6

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