How We Made It to 20 Years of Marriage (The One Thing That Changed Everything)

It was just our 20-year anniversary, and we don’t take that lightly.

Twenty years of love.

Twenty years of lessons.

Twenty years of choosing each other.

In this episode, we share what really helped us make it to 20 years, and it wasn’t perfection, chemistry, or luck.

It was one powerful decision:

The willingness to grow.

Growth in communication.

Growth in maturity.

Growth in healing.

Growth in how we love each other.

Most relationships don’t fail because of one big moment.

They struggle because one or both partners stop growing.

If you’re dating, engaged, newly married, or years in, this conversation will challenge and encourage you.

Because lasting love isn’t about staying the same.

It’s about growing forward together.

❤️ Your marriage can thrive. It just requires growth.

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💔 When Money Breaks Trust

Financial infidelity isn't just about the numbers; it’s about the silence and the secrets that slowly erode the foundation of your relationship. Most couples don’t fall out of love—they fall out of alignment, and hidden debt is one of the fastest ways to lose that connection.

In this video, we dive deep into the "unseen debt" that impacts marriages and partnerships. We discuss how to break the cycle of miscommunication, address the emotional weight of financial secrets, and start the journey of rebuilding the trust you’ve been praying for.

✨ A Final Thought

Love doesn’t fail—people just stop learning how to love well. Let’s change that together.

Join the Conversation: What is the biggest challenge you've faced regarding money and trust? Share your thoughts in the comments below!💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle?

If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone.

Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment.

We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again.

That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for.

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💞 Tools & Resources For Lovers to Help You Reconnect

📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call

If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk.

→ https://lovercoaching.com

🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections”

Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process.

→ https://lovercoaching.com/love

📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples”

Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection.

→ https://amzn.to/4nzNu80

🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ

Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go.

✨ Remember

Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well.

Let’s change that.

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💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle?

If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone.

Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment.

We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again.

That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for.

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💞 Tools & Resources For Lovers to Help You Reconnect

📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call

If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk.

→ https://lovercoaching.com

🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections”

Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process.

→ https://lovercoaching.com/love

📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples”

Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection.

→ https://amzn.to/4nzNu80

🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ

Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go.

✨ Remember

Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well.

Let’s change that.

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The Standard You Set is the Value You Accept

We talk a lot about standards…

But what if the standards you tolerate are quietly revealing how you see yourself?

In this episode of Take It From Tonya, I’m unpacking a truth most people avoid:

The standard you set is the value you accept.

This isn’t about being picky.

It’s not about controlling people.

It’s about self-respect.

If you’ve been tolerating things that drain you, diminish you, or delay your growth—this conversation is for you.

We’re talking about:

• Why low standards aren’t a people problem—they’re a self-perception problem

• How tolerating disrespect slowly erodes your confidence

• The connection between boundaries, self-worth, and peace

• Simple, practical ways to raise your standard without guilt

This episode isn’t here to shame you.

It’s here to wake you up.

Because once you see yourself differently…

You’ll stop accepting what no longer fits.

🎧 Listen all the way through and ask yourself one honest question:

What am I tolerating that no longer aligns with who I’m becoming?

✨ If this resonated, make sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs permission to raise their bar.

As always…

Take it from Tonya.

#MindsetShift💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle?

If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone.

Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment.

We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again.

That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for.

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💞 Tools & Resources For Lovers to Help You Reconnect

📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call

If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk.

→ https://lovercoaching.com

🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections”

Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process.

→ https://lovercoaching.com/love

📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples”

Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection.

→ https://amzn.to/4nzNu80

🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ

Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go.

✨ Remember

Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well.

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💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle?

If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone.

Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment.

We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again.

That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for.

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💞 Tools & Resources For Lovers to Help You Reconnect

📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call

If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk.

→ https://lovercoaching.com

🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections”

Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process.

→ https://lovercoaching.com/love

📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples”

Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection.

→ https://amzn.to/4nzNu80

🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ

Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go.

✨ Remember

Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well.

Let’s change that.

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The Momentum Method The Secret to Building Connection Fast with Your Guy

Free PDF instant - https://tinyurl.com/3an6mpht

Please note that these video is based on our opinion and experience!

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