February takes more legends as we say goodbye to Eric Dane and salsa icon Willie Colón, reflecting on their impact and legacy.

Then we pivot to the escalating violence south of the border following the reported death of Nemesio Oseguera Cervantes, the alleged leader of Cártel Jalisco Nueva Generación (CJNG). What does this mean for Mexico? For civilians caught in the middle? For rival cartels? We break down the retaliation, the airport shutdowns, the fear in the streets, and the bigger question: Does the United States get involved if things spiral further? Is this a regional crisis, or the beginning of something larger?

On a completely different battlefield, we talk redemption. Ryan Garcia is back, and he didn’t just win, he reminded the world why he’s box office. After setbacks, suspensions, and doubters, is this the start of his true prime? What does this victory mean for the division, his legacy, and the sport of Boxing?

This week on To You & Yours, we open with a moment of reflection, paying respect to two towering figures whose legacies left an undeniable mark, honoring their lives, their impact, and what they represented in culture and history.

From there, we step into one of the most difficult and emotionally charged conversations in today’s headlines: the rise in mass violence and the questions people are asking about who’s committing these acts and why. Rather than noise or outrage, we unpack the fear, the confusion, the mental-health conversations, and the responsibility society carries in searching for real answers, and real solutions.

Next, we revisit the story of Cain Velasquez; a father whose pursuit of justice nearly cost him everything. Was it rage, love, or something deeper that drove his actions? And in a moment that tests every moral boundary… what would you have done?

We close the episode on a lighter, but still competitive note, breaking down ESPN’s ranking of the hardest sports in the world. Did they get it right, or did they completely miss the mark?

In this episode, we start with the real story behind Valentine’s Day; where it came from, what it was meant to represent, and how it somehow evolved into modern day pressure, expectations, and performance. From there, we get into the rise of Galentine’s Day and why women seem to be doing their big one creating spaces that celebrate themselves, but also what that shift might be saying about relationships, loneliness, and the culture at large.

Then we unpack a story that honestly left me stunned: a man nurses his woman back to health through two brain surgeries, washing her, caring for her, standing ten toes down in her weakest moments, only for her to later say she still feels unappreciated.
How is that even possible?
What does appreciation even mean anymore?
And what does this say about gratitude, expectations, and the way love is measured today?

We close the episode with a deeper conversation about the mental health fragility of this generation, why resilience feels lower, why every inconvenience now feels like a crisis, and whether society has confused awareness with avoidance. Most importantly, we ask the real question:
How do we fix it? How do we rebuild toughness without losing compassion, strength without losing sensitivity, and accountability without losing grace?