This episode isn’t about healing.
It’s about calling it what it is.

There are people who grow—and people who perform like they’re growing.
People who welcome accountability—and people who curate comfort and call it peace.
People who want alignment—and people who just want applause.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the subtle but powerful split between two types of people: the ones who are willing to be stretched, challenged, and changed—and the ones who avoid anything that threatens the version of themselves they’re comfortable performing.

No fluff. No vague inspiration. Just the truth.

Because you don’t build the life you really want by protecting who you used to be.

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