Are you building something powerful—a podcast, business, brand, or new version of yourself—but feel like no one else sees the vision yet?

This episode of The Upgrade with L is for every visionary, content creator, entrepreneur, or dreamer who’s tired of showing up without applause. Lauren Hayes breaks down what it means to stay committed when the results haven’t arrived, and how to protect your belief in something only you can see—for now.

Whether you’re a creative entrepreneur, launching your next offer, building your audience, or stepping into your soft rebrand—Lauren walks you through:
•How to keep going when nobody believes in you
•Why building a brand, podcast, or movement often feels lonely at first
•What silence really means during your growth season
•The mindset shift required to stay consistent without external validation
•How to lead with vision—not metrics

This episode blends motivational insight, real-world content strategy, and mindset coaching for women navigating the early (and often quiet) stages of building something real.

If you’re ready to build in alignment—not just for validation—this episode will re-energize your journey.

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🚀 The best investment you’ll ever make? Betting on yourself. Upgrade accordingly.

Episode 11: “I Said ‘I’m Grateful’ When I Should’ve Said ‘I’m Good’”

Subtitle: Outgrowing Workplaces That No Longer Grow You

Are you stuck in a job that looks good on paper—but feels misaligned in your spirit? In this episode of The Upgrade with L, Lauren Hayes breaks down the silent ways high-achieving women—especially Black women—shrink themselves in workplaces that no longer serve their growth.

From polite office politics to being praised but not promoted, Lauren unpacks how we mistake gratitude for guilt, loyalty for self-abandonment, and humility for silence. She shares personal stories, tangible signs that your role may be keeping you small, and powerful reframes to help you leave with peace—not panic.

Whether you’re quietly battling burnout or finally ready to walk away from a job that doesn’t honor your potential, this episode is your permission slip to move from survival to alignment.

What You’ll Learn:

• The subtle signs you’ve outgrown your role
• How to separate gratitude from guilt
• What it means to choose growth over loyalty
• A powerful framework to help you know when it’s time to move on

Keywords: career growth, burnout, job alignment, workplace toxicity, leaving a job, women in leadership, Black women in corporate, personal development, boundaries at work, knowing your worth, high achievers

Listen now to upgrade your mindset—and your professional future.

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When you start healing… when you stop performing and start aligning with who you really are—something shifts.

You begin to outgrow people, places, and patterns that once felt like home.

You stop shrinking to stay accepted.

You stop bending to be palatable.

And suddenly, you’re misunderstood.

In this episode of The Upgrade with L, host Lauren Hayes unpacks the emotional cost of personal growth and identity shifts—especially for Black women who are navigating healing in real time. This is for anyone who’s ever been labeled dramatic, distant, or different just for choosing peace over people-pleasing.

Lauren explores how outgrowing friendships, shedding survival patterns, and embracing emotional clarity can feel isolating—but ultimately liberating. She speaks directly to the woman standing in the in-between: no longer who she was, not yet fully where she’s going.

If you’ve ever felt like freedom made you unrecognizable to the people who once loved you—this episode will hit home.

This isn’t a breakdown. It’s a breakthrough.

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🚀 The best investment you’ll ever make? Betting on yourself. Upgrade accordingly.