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The Unlicensed Therapist

The Unlicensed Therapist

Von: M Grimm
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The Unlicensed Therapist is a candid, practical, and creative podcast for emerging mental health professionals. Hosted by counselor Matthew Grimm, the show pulls back the curtain on the realities of becoming a therapist and uses the term "unlicensed" as a symbol of a profession that must keep learning, growing and exploring. Blending personal stories with professional insights, Matthew creates a supportive space where listeners can learn, laugh, and feel less alone as they navigate the path from student to clinician.

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  • The Reality Gap: Classroom Theory vs. The 50‑Minute Hour
    Feb 19 2026
    Episode 7 — “The Reality Gap: Classroom Theory vs. The 50‑Minute Hour”

    Every new therapist hits it: The Reality Gap — that jarring moment when everything you learned in the classroom collides with the beautifully messy, unpredictable reality of the therapy room.

    In this episode of The Unlicensed Therapist, we break down the three biggest mismatches between academic training and real clinical work:

    • Theory vs. Process — why clients don’t follow your treatment plan outline

    • Time vs. Depth — why the “slow middle” of therapy is where the real work happens

    • Crisis vs. Maintenance — why most of your job isn’t dramatic, but deeply meaningful

    You’ll learn two practical strategies you can start using immediately: the Minimal Sufficient Response (a game‑changer for anxiety‑ridden new clinicians) and the Reverse Supervision Strategy, which helps you shift from “What did I do wrong?” to “What is the client showing me?”

    We also speak directly to clients about why therapy often feels slow — and why that’s not a flaw, but a feature of real healing.

    If you’re a counseling student, intern, or early‑career clinician trying to bridge the gap between theory and practice, this episode will help you breathe a little easier and step into the room with more confidence.

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    17 Min.
  • Episode 6 - (3 of 3) Your Identity in the Room: Ten Therapists, One Client
    Feb 12 2026

    In the final chapter of the identity trilogy, Matthew Grimm brings listeners into the therapy room to demonstrate how a counselor’s identity truly comes alive only in relationship with a client. This episode introduces Alex, a composite client whose burnout, anger, neurodivergence, and trauma history create a complex emotional landscape. His statement—“My boss is out to get me”—becomes the anchor point for exploring how different therapeutic identities interpret and respond to the same moment.

    Across the episode, Matthew walks through ten distinct therapeutic identities, showing how each one hears Alex’s story differently and offers a unique path forward. The CBT‑oriented “Thought Detective” challenges cognitive distortions. The psychodynamic “Pattern Finder” traces the emotional echo of past caregivers. The narrative “Story Editor” externalizes Alex’s sense of injustice. The IFS “Boardroom Moderator” speaks to protective parts. The somatic “Body Wise Guide” slows the session down to the level of breath and tension. The existential “Meaning Seeker” explores values. The solution‑focused “Strength Spotter” builds hope. The reality‑therapy “Choice Maker” emphasizes agency. The systems‑oriented “Architect” maps workplace dynamics. And the multicultural “Culture Bridge” names power, privilege, and systemic stress.

    Rather than promoting one “best” approach, the episode highlights the art of choosing the right identity for the right moment. Matthew emphasizes that a therapist’s identity is not a fixed allegiance but a flexible, responsive way of being—shaped by training, instinct, personality, and lived experience. The goal is not to master all ten identities, but to understand which ones feel natural, which ones stretch you, and which ones your clients need most.

    The episode closes with reflective homework inviting therapists to observe themselves in session, identify which identities show up, and explore which ones feel like home. Matthew ends with a reminder that finding your counseling identity is an ongoing process—and that every therapist is “unlicensed” until they discover their own voice.

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    20 Min.
  • Episode 5 (2 of 3) - The Identity Buffet: The Gallery of Therapist Vibes
    Feb 5 2026
    Episode 5 (2 of 3): The Identity Buffet — The Gallery of Therapist Vibes

    Ever feel like you’re wearing a "therapist suit" that doesn't quite fit?

    If Episode 4 was about the heavy lifting of emotional excavation, Episode 5 is the "vibe check" you’ve been waiting for. This week, host Matthew Grimm invites you to a gallery walk of professional identities. We’re moving past the textbook definitions and into the lived experience of how we show up in the room.

    Think of your counseling identity not as a single hat you have to wear forever, but as a closet full of outfits. Today, we’re trying them all on. Whether you’re a structured "Thought-Detective" or a radical "Culture-Bridge," this episode is about finding what makes you lean forward and what feels like home.

    In this episode, we explore 10 distinct therapist archetypes:
    • The Thought-Detective & The Pattern-Finder: From cleaning cognitive lenses to uncovering childhood blueprints.

    • The Story-Editor & The Boardroom Moderator: Re-authoring life narratives and facilitating the "inner boardroom" of parts.

    • The Body-Wise Guide & The Meaning-Seeker: Tuning into somatic whispers and sitting with the big existential "why."

    • The Strength-Spotter, Choice-Maker, & System Architect: Focusing on hope, accountability, and the invisible rules of the family system.

    • The Culture-Bridge: Validating lived experience and naming the power dynamics in the room.

    What we’ll cover:
    • The Identity Framework: Why your "vibe" should shift depending on the client and the moment.

    • Trauma-Informed & ND-Affirming Lenses: How each archetype adapts to meet the needs of neurodivergent and trauma-impacted clients.

    • The Integration Challenge: Why being "two things at once" isn't confusion—it’s range.

    "We’re all unlicensed until we find our voice." Tune in to start finding yours.

    Homework for the Week: Pick two identities that resonated with you during the gallery walk. Journal about how they show up in your sessions and notice which "vibe" emerges when you’re feeling stressed or overwhelmed.

    Next Week: We’re putting these identities to the test! We’ll apply all ten archetypes to a single client case study to see how the same problem changes depending on the "outfit" you’re wearing.

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    20 Min.
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