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In this second installment of our series with David Arrell, we move from theory into application. Building on earlier conversations about adult developmental theory, identity, and growth, this episode focuses on what it actually looks like to climb the next rungs of development in real life.

This conversation discusses the internal “symptoms” of stagnation, the fear that often accompanies change, and the role of self-reflection, vulnerability, and community in helping people mature psychologically and emotionally. Rather than offering surface-level fixes, David outlines how depth, health, and growth develop over time and what developmentally appropriate support actually looks like at different stages of life.

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In the first of a 3 part series , David Arrell discusses the significance of adult developmental theory, exploring how individuals can navigate their personal growth and relationships. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one's identity and the various stages of development that shape our experiences. The conversation delves into the dimensions of betterment - health, depth, and growth - and how they interconnect in our lives. David also addresses the impact of culture on our development and the necessity of facing challenges to foster personal growth.

The episode concludes with a call for listeners to engage with their own developmental journeys and the importance of seeking wisdom in a complex world.

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Preston Adams, a lifelong Aurora, Colorado native with nearly two decades of experience in youth violence prevention, has worked across classrooms, gyms, detention settings, and community based programs supporting gang and system involved young people. Now leading the Youth Violence Prevention program for the City and County of Denver, Preston brings a rare perspective shaped by both frontline work and navigating the limits of the justice system itself.

In this episode of the Super Daddy Club, Preston and Lendo examine the realities facing young people caught in cycles of incarceration, immigration stress, trauma, and structural neglect. They break down why “tough love” and scare-based approaches like Scared Straight consistently fail, and how dehumanization within the juvenile justice system often deepens harm rather than preventing it. The conversation moves beyond trauma-informed language toward healing-centered care, emphasizing the importance of time, developmental understanding, and sustained community support.

Together, they explore how real accountability paired with compassion, relationship-based mentorship, indigenous healing practices, and community-rooted solutions offer a more effective path forward. One that addresses the root causes of harm, preserves dignity, and creates the conditions for lasting change.

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