"Everyone has ADHD now."

You've heard it. Maybe someone said it to you — with a half-joke, half-accusation edge. Like, neurodivergence is just the trend of the season.

But what if that reaction tells us less about ADHD and more about the systems we're living in?

In this conversation with Kristina Kyser — psychotherapist, educator, and creator of the Neurodivergent Rising course — we pull apart the "ADHD superpower" narrative that's everywhere right now. Because yes, there are gifts: innovation, nonlinear thinking, deep passion, hyperfocus. Those are real.

But who benefits when we only talk about the parts of capitalism that it can extract?


What We Cover:

ADHD masking: the invisible labour of appearing "normal"
From childhood, neurodivergent people — especially women — calibrate to a world that says: you're too much, you're wrong, you're different. Kristina breaks down what masking costs and why perimenopause often unmasks ADHD in midlife.

The construction of "sanity" and who it was built to serve
Normalcy isn't neutral. The DSM, psychiatry, the witch burnings — all of it is tangled with patriarchy, colonialism, and capitalism's need for compliant workers. Kristina traces the historical roots of how neurodivergence gets pathologised.

The superpower question: what's true, what's missing, who profits
Yes, ADHD comes with strengths. But when we only celebrate the traits capitalism values (innovation! hyperfocus! productivity!) while erasing the lows, the burnout, the 13-year shorter life expectancy, the systemic barriers — who does that serve?

Why ADHD is a disability under capitalism — and that's not your fault
ADHD isn't a medical deficit. But in a society built for neurotypical brains, it is disabling. Kristina explains the difference between individual healing and systemic change, and why we need both.

Meet Kristina Kyser:

Kristina (she/her) is a late-diagnosed AuDHD educator, former psychotherapist, and course creator with a PhD in English Literature and over 13 years of clinical experience. Her work bridges trauma healing, animist practice, and systems-level critique. She creates initiatory spaces that blend science, soul, and lived neurodivergence in service of collective remembering and repair.

Learn more:
Neurodivergent Rising Course
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This weekly affirmation is for you if you've been told that you need a five-year plan when you can barely figure out what you want for lunch.

This week's affirmation:
"I release the pressure to figure out my purpose. I start with listening inward what I need in this moment."

You don't have to have it all mapped out. What you need right now matters more than what you think you should want five years from now.

New Soft Landings every Friday. Save this. Share it. Come back to it when you need the reminder. 🤍

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Every Friday on The Scenic Route, one grounded affirmation to help you rest, reset, and remember you're way back home to yourself.

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Here's the thing nobody tells you: the way you order at a restaurant says A LOT about how you move through life.

Are you the person who waits to hear what everyone else is getting before you decide? Do you need everyone's opinion before you can choose? Are you picking what you want, and it feels weirdly vulnerable?

Yeah. We need to talk.

In this episode, I sit down with Jillian Reilly, author of Ten Permissions: How to Stop Waiting and Start Living, to talk about why so many of us can't make the smallest choices for ourselves, and what that says about the bigger life we're (not) living.

We dig into:

• Why approval-seeking starts at lunch and ends with your whole identity
• The terror of wanting something no one else validates
• How to build choice-making muscles before you blow up your life
• Why pleasure isn't selfish (and might be the most strategic thing you can practice)
• What happens when the old rules stop working, and there's no new manual

This conversation is for the overthinkers, the people-pleasers, the ones who've spent decades being "good" and are now sitting in the rubble of what that actually got them.



About Jillian Reilly

Jillian Reilly is a founder, author, and keynote speaker. Having spent her 30-year career working in social, organisational, and individual change across Africa, Asia, and Central Europe, Jillian’s focus is on helping people unlock their ability to navigate change and accelerate growth and learning. Jillian’s book, The Ten Permissions, guides readers in permitting themselves to update how they operate in the 21st century and design lives that fully leverage the possibilities of this disruptive world. Jillian is a TEDX speaker and podcast host who has been published on international affairs in the Washington Post, Newsweek and the LA Times.

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• Website: tenpermissions.com

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