What if the key to improving a child’s behavior isn’t found in stricter rules, but in stronger relationships? And what should care and treatment look like for children who have experienced really hard circumstances?

Our guest today brings evidence-based answers to both of these questions.

Darius Payne is a licensed Master Social Worker and Juvenile Justice expert with extensive experience in child welfare and the application of Trust-Based Relational Intervention®, or TBRI®. He currently oversees training, implementation, and quality assurance of TBRI® at the Harris County Juvenile Probation Department.

TBRI® is a trauma-informed, attachment-centered approach designed to meet the complex needs of children who have experienced adversity. Rather than focusing solely on behavior management, TBRI® emphasizes felt safety, connection, and skill-building. When children experience healthy, consistent relationships, they begin to develop confidence, self-worth, and the capacity to heal.

In this episode, Darius shares the key tenets of TBRI® and how it strengthens families, how the foster care and juvenile justice systems can work together more effectively, what systemic change really requires, and more.

Find the show notes and links to anything we discussed here: riversideproject.org/podcast/darius-payne-47/

From the beginning of their relationship, adoption was always a part of our founder, Amber, and her husband’s plan; they even had an adoption fund in their wedding registry! After they stepped into the child welfare system, they felt a desire to support foster parents like themselves—and this vision would quickly turn into something much bigger.

Amber Knowles is our founder and Executive Director. In 2018, she launched the Babysitting Collaborative, which would become The Riverside Project’s first initiative and lay the foundation for everything we do now.

A pediatric nurse practitioner by training, Amber holds a BSN from Baylor and an MSN from UTHealth Houston, and is a TBRI® Practitioner, bringing a trauma-informed approach to her work. Today, Amber combines her background in healthcare and her passion for child welfare to create meaningful change for vulnerable children and families in Houston.

In this episode, Amber shares more about how The Riverside Project began, the challenges faced by every foster parent, a vision for the future of Houston and foster care, and much more.

Find the show notes and links to anything we discussed here: https://riversideproject.org/podcast/amber-knowles-46

What kinds of foster care placements are you open to? This is a question that gets asked to all foster parents when they first open their home. Will you take sibling groups? Infants? Children with significant medical or physical needs? Or children with disabilities?

Each family and individual must decide for themselves what they are prepared to handle based on their capabilities and current circumstances.

Children involved in the child welfare system who have special needs or disabilities often struggle to find foster families. They are also more likely to experience negative outcomes in this system, such as having to navigate multiple transitions during their time in foster care.

My guest for this conversation is Kayla Williams, an early childhood special education teacher in Bryan, Texas. Kayla was a foster parent for two years before adopting her daughter in 2022. As a single parent raising a disabled child, Kayla brings a rare and invaluable perspective that we can learn a lot from.

In this episode, Kayla shares some of the challenges that come with parenting a child who has disabilities and is recovering from trauma, the realities of “blocked” care, ways we can advocate for families who are caring for children in foster care with special needs, and much more.

Find the show notes and links to anything we discussed here: https://riversideproject.org/podcast/kayla-williams-45