Another collection of the best clips from our podcast episodes in 2025, with comments from Tim Tedder. In Part 2, we hear clips from these episodes:

Episode 17: ILYBINILWY

Episode 6: Gaslighting

Episode 14: 6 Affair Motives

Episode 9: Lovely Fruit (SongTalk)

Episodes 19-20: How to Sleep Again (free resources)

Episode 24: Stop Repairing Your Marriage After an Affair

Episode 34: Married to a Narcissist (free resources)

Episode 35: The Fog and the Light

Episode 23: Light of Grace (SongTalk)

LINKS and EXTRAS

Episode Webpage: https://affairhealing.com/podcasts/037

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A collection of the best clips from our podcast episodes in 2025, with comments from Tim Tedder. In Part 1, we hear clips from these episodes:

Episode 8: It Feels Like Love: The Power of Limerence

Episode 10: Crossing the Line: Steps Into Infidelity

Episodes 2-4: Elisa’s Story

Episode 13: Haunting of My Heart

Episode 21: The Problem of Forgiveness

Episode 22: The Power of Forgiveness

Episodes 30-33: Kevin Leaves

Episode: 28-29: Bad Advice about Affair Recovery

Episode 5: This Healing Place

LINKS and EXTRAS

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Most affairs don’t begin with a dramatic decision. They begin with something small: a conversation, a shared laugh, a spark of attention that feels harmless. In this episode of The Affair Recovery Room, Tim Tedder explores what happens in those early compromises, when two competing messages show up at the same time. One speaks from the Fog of Self-Justification. The other speaks from the Light of Love’s Promise.

Through a story featuring Mark, his wife Cindy, and a coworker named Emma, you’ll hear how subtle choices can drift toward betrayal. Along the way, Tim breaks down the psychology of self-justification and how our minds protect our self-image by rewriting the stories we tell ourselves.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode includes audio dramatizations that could be activating for betrayed partners who are struggling with affair triggers. Portions of today’s content also appear in my article: Consider Your Compromises. Engage with this material in the way that feels safest for you.

Finally, Tim offers four practical steps you can take if you find yourself (or your spouse) wandering into the Fog—starting with revisiting your vows, examining where you’ve honored them or neglected them, and inviting a new kind of conversation in the Light. The episode ends with a steadying question that cuts through rationalization: If a light were shining on this choice, would it look like the love I promised? Would my partner agree?

LINKS and EXTRAS

Episode Page: https://affairhealing.com/podcasts/035

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