In this episode of The Empower Create Encourage Podcast, I sit down with Christian sexpert Angela Griffith for a refreshingly honest conversation about intimacy, expectations, and the myths that quietly shape our marriages.

Angela brings wisdom, humor, and a deeply grounded perspective as we unpack the pressures couples carry into the bedroom, especially the cultural lie that every sexual experience should be “mind‑blowing” or cinematic. Together, we explore what real intimacy looks like when we let go of unrealistic expectations and embrace connection over performance.

We dive into:

• Why married sex isn’t always mind‑blowingly orgasmic and why that’s not a sign of failure
• The biggest lie Hollywood tells us about sex and how it distorts our expectations
• Patterns that keep couples from experiencing fulfilling intimacy
• Strategies for building connection that go beyond physical touch
• The different types of intimacy every marriage needs to thrive
• Why fun and recreational play is often the first intimacy to disappear and how to bring it back
• Sex journaling as a powerful tool for communication, clarity, and growth

If you’re ready to rethink what great sex in marriage really looks like and find freedom from the pressure to “perform” this episode will encourage you and give you tools to grow.

🎧 Tune in and remember: You are empowered to create the love, life, and reality you desire.

Connect with Alessandra Charlesworth | https://linktr.ee/empower.create.encourage

At Authentic Transformation, we help individuals and organizations overcome emotional, mental, and operational barriers using a powerful blend of inner child healing, neuroscience, quantum physics, and spirituality.

We support:

• Individuals by identifying and reprogramming trauma-rooted patterns that block confidence, clarity, and self-leadership.
• Organizations by removing operational obstacles, aligning systems with purpose, and optimizing teams for sustainable growth and lasting impact.

Learn more | https://authentictransformation.ca/

S5E06 – The Anxious & Avoidant Cycle

with guest Malisa Hepner, therapist, author, and host of “Emotionally Unavailable”

Why do anxious and avoidant partners seem irresistibly drawn to each other—yet often end up in cycles of push, pull, and misunderstanding?

In this episode of the Empower Create Encourage Podcast, I sit down with Malisa Hepner to unpack the magnetic (and sometimes messy) connection between these two attachment styles.

After we explore:

• The simple truth about what drives anxious and avoidant attraction
• The recurring patterns in decision-making, problem-solving, and conflict
• How emotional safety can be cultivated for both partners
• Common intimacy and bedroom dynamics in anxious/avoidant relationships
• The impact of dissociation and “performative desire” on connection
• How avoidance of pain affects emotional intimacy
• Grounding and regulation techniques for individuals and couples
• One small but powerful step couples can take toward secure love—even if they’ve never experienced it before

If you’ve ever felt stuck in this loop—or love someone who has—this conversation will help you see the cycle clearly and give you tools to change it.

🎧 Tune in and remember: You are empowered to create the love, life, and reality you desire.

Connect with Malisa Hepner, on her instagram | @malisa.hepner

Connect with Alessandra Charlesworth | https://linktr.ee/empower.create.encourage

At Authentic Transformation, we help individuals and organizations overcome emotional, mental, and operational barriers using a powerful blend of inner child healing, neuroscience, quantum physics, and spirituality.

We support:

• Individuals by identifying and reprogramming trauma-rooted patterns that block confidence, clarity, and self-leadership.
• Organizations by removing operational obstacles, aligning systems with purpose, and optimizing teams for sustainable growth and lasting impact.

If you're a growth-minded leader ready to remove what's holding you back—personally or organizationally—we'd love to support you.

Learn more | https://authentictransformation.ca/

Are you living your own life—or the one you inherited?

In this episode of Empower Create Encourage, I sit down with Simon Luthi, author of Becoming the Rocket Shaman, to explore how cultural conditioning, family patterns, and unconscious stories shape who we think we are.

We talk about:

• The subtle signs you might be living an inherited identity
• How to recognize and release the roles you never chose
• Simon’s “Once Upon a Time” method for uncovering unconscious stories
• Why “Is this mine?” is the question that can realign your life
• The first steps to rewriting your story as a sacred act

Connect with Simon Luthi, on his website | www.therocketshaman.com

Connect with Alessandra Charlesworth | https://linktr.ee/empower.create.encourage

At Authentic Transformation, we help individuals and organizations overcome emotional, mental, and operational barriers using a powerful blend of inner child healing, neuroscience, quantum physics, and spirituality.

We support:

• Individuals by identifying and reprogramming trauma-rooted patterns that block confidence, clarity, and self-leadership.
• Organizations by removing operational obstacles, aligning systems with purpose, and optimizing teams for sustainable growth and lasting impact.

If you're a growth-minded leader ready to remove what's holding you back—personally or organizationally—we'd love to support you.

Learn more | https://authentictransformation.ca/