If you grew up in an Italian household, you know that "quiet" is a four-letter word and silence usually means someone is either sleeping or up to no good. In this episode of The Good Bit Edit, host Lou D’Adamo—a man who clearly understands the melodic power of a high-decibel conversation—dives deep into the beautiful, chaotic symphony of growing up Italian.
From the strategic "jump rope" technique required to join a conversation to the high-stakes politics of being demoted to the "kids' table," we’re exploring the traditions that shaped us. We’ve got stories of marathon four-hour Sunday dinners, the mystical healing powers of the Malocchio ritual, and the ultimate linguistic battlefield: Is it sauce or is it gravy?
In This Episode, We Discuss:
- The Physics of the Italian Yell: Why talking over each other is actually a sign of deep affection and engagement.
- Sunday Dinner Survival Tactics: How to navigate a table that stretches across the living room and why you never, ever say you’re "full"—only that you’re "done".
- The Kitchen Arsenal: Memories of the wooden spoon, the flying slipper, and why those plastic-wrapped sofas were both a summer torture device and a sacred boundary.
- The "Italian Goodbye": A breakdown of the multi-stage migration from the table to the porch to the car window that takes at least 45 minutes.
- Aunties, Uncles, and "Family": How the definition of family extends far beyond DNA to anyone who offers advice, protection, or a bag of goodies for the ride home.
Join Lou and special guests Mario Scillipoti, Victor Tosti, Donna Russo-Antignano, and Linda Matarazzo DeRemigis as they look past the red sauce and hand gestures to the heart of what it means to be family.
Grab a meatball (or three), turn up the volume, and welcome home.