Oklahoma Hotel Takeovers, Sooner Swing & Consent Workshops (with Justin from OTB)

Justin from OTB (On the Border) joins The Professor, Chuck D, and producer David to break down what the lifestyle really looks like in Oklahoma—and why it’s bigger (and wilder) than most people assume.

From full-weekend hotel takeovers to a massive campground festival-style event called Sooner Swing, this episode hits real-world event flow, what couples should expect, and how education + consent workshops can make the difference between a messy weekend and an amazing one.

Topics / Search Terms

• ​Oklahoma lifestyle / swingers / ENM
• ​Hotel takeovers (weekend flow)
• ​Sooner Swing (campground festival)
• ​Consent workshops + boundaries
• ​Event etiquette + signals
• ​Hedonism trips

Guest / Tickets

• ​OTB (On the Border) — https://otbls.com

Also Mentioned

• ​Mardi Gras hotel takeover: February 20–21

Sponsors / Partners

• ​PassionScapes Photography — https://passionscapes.com
• ​Glitz by Jax — https://glitzbyjax.com

Studio Partner

• ​Couples Next Door — https://couplesnextdoor.com
• ​Referral code: DD25

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Produced byDown & Dirty Productions Company — https://downdirtyproductions.com

Burnout in the Lifestyle isn’t just being tired — it’s when your capacity disappears and play starts to feel like pressure. In this Ladies’ Den episode, the crew gets real about emotional labor, mismatched energy, and how to protect your connection without forcing yourself through another weekend you don’t actually want.

Topics include:

• Lifestyle burnout and why it happens
• Emotional labor and invisible pressure
• Capacity vs desire
• Letting go of rules that kill the vibe
• Choosing intention over obligation

Guests: C; The Cowboy

Audio note: Mrs. Doll and The Cowboy share a mic in this recording; some responses may overlap.

Studio Partner:
Couples Next Door
https://couplesnextdoor.com
Referral code: DD25

Sponsors:
PassionScapes Photography
https://passionscapesphotography.com

Merch Partner:
Glitz by Jax
https://glitzbyjax.com

Listen & connect:
https://downdirtypodcast.com

The Down & Dirty Podcast is a sex-positive, consent-forward space for honest conversation. This episode reflects personal experiences and opinions and is not medical, legal, or therapeutic advice.

Sex Games with Eliza is back — and this time it’s all playful chaos: sex trivia, dirty word prompts, and “what would you do?” scenarios that turn into real talk about turn-ons, boundaries, and what people actually mean when they say “I’m into that.”

Eliza joins Chuck D and The Professor (with the Dean in the room) for a light, funny, adult conversation that’s part game-night, part confession booth — and fully unfiltered.

Key topics / search terms:

• Sex games & sexy icebreakers
• Sex trivia
• Turn-ons & boundaries
• Dirty word prompts
• Confidence, comfort levels, and consent

What we talk about:

• Rapid-fire prompts and game moments
• How people communicate turn-ons without overexplaining
• Comfort levels, privacy, and boundaries
• Where humor helps — and where clarity matters more

Guests & credits:
Guest: Eliza
Hosts: Chuck D, The Professor
In-room: The Dean

Sponsors / Partners:

• PassionScapes Photography — https://passionscapesphotography.com
• Glitz by Jax — https://glitzbyjax.com
• Couples Next Door — https://couplesnextdoor.com

Listen & connect:
https://downdirtypodcast.com

The Down & Dirty Podcast is a sex-positive, consent-forward space for honest conversation.