When your child is struggling, how do you know when to intervene, when to wait, and when to trust that they are developing normally?

Dr. Katie Davis is a clinical psychologist, pediatric neuropsychologist, professor, parent, and author of the newly released book Actually, You’re Fine. In this episode, we talk about the difficult position parents are placed in when one message tells us to intervene early while another tells us to wait and see.

Katie offers three practical questions parents can ask when they are concerned about a child’s behavior: Is it age appropriate? Is it a change from their usual baseline? Is it causing meaningful impairment in daily life?

We discuss the difference between a true neurodevelopmental concern and the uncomfortable but often typical behaviors that come with childhood. Katie explains why not every difficulty needs a diagnosis, formal evaluation, or ongoing therapy. Sometimes a child can be supported by adjusting their environment, changing the language adults use, or reconsidering the expectations being placed on them.

We also get into the pressure to optimize every part of childhood. Social media, parenting influencers, competitive activities, and achievement culture can make ordinary parenting decisions feel enormously consequential. Katie reminds us that parents are only one part of a much larger picture—and that most of our daily micro-decisions will not determine the entire course of our children’s lives.

Drawing on the idea of the “good enough parent,” Katie brings the focus back to what matters most: food, sleep, consistency, support, and love. We talk about why “fine” can be a healthier goal than constant excellence and what children lose when every available hour is filled with tutoring, therapy, training, or structured achievement.

Katie also shares a thoughtful perspective on diagnosis, school accommodations, and equity. When families with greater money, time, or advocacy skills secure unnecessary services, already-limited resources become even harder to access for the children who truly need them.

What we cover:

• When to intervene, when to wait, and when to seek another perspective

• Three questions to ask when you are concerned about your child

• The difference between age-appropriate behavior and functional impairment

• Supporting a child informally before pursuing a diagnosis

• When a single professional consultation may be enough

• Why being a psychologist does not make parenting easy

• Social media, parenting influencers, and the pressure to optimize childhood

• The “good enough parent” and the basic needs that matter most

• Why a B should not feel like failure

• The opportunity cost of tutoring, therapy, and overscheduling

• How overdiagnosis and resource strain affect vulnerable children

This episode is for parents who worry that they are missing something, feel pressure to address every struggle immediately, or need a grounded way to decide what kind of support their child may actually need. It is also for anyone ready to step away from comparison, loosen their grip on constant optimization, and make more room for an ordinary, unstructured childhood.

Actually, You’re Fine is available now wherever books are sold. Learn more about Dr. Katie Davis at https://www.drkatiedavis.com/ and follow her at @drkatiedavis.

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What happens when you finally reach the place you’ve been working toward—only to realize you don’t want the life that comes with it?

Jennifer Lindquist spent years climbing the corporate ladder, building a successful career in recruiting at companies including Ulta, PepsiCo, and Amazon. She reached the level she thought she wanted, but the pressure, politics, and personal cost required more than she was willing to keep giving.

So Jennifer booked a one-way ticket to South America.

What began as a dramatic departure from corporate life became a year of solo travel through 25 countries, including walking the Camino de Santiago. When Jennifer eventually returned to the United States, she expected to move back into her apartment, find another job, and resume the life she had left. Instead, she realized she was no longer the same person—and she couldn’t unsee the possibilities her time abroad had shown her.

In this episode, we talk about having the agency to choose something different, even after spending years working toward a particular version of success. Jennifer shares why she decided not to return to corporate America, how she built a freelance career she can take anywhere, and what it means to create a full life around work instead of asking work to become your entire life.

We also get into the human side of careers. After 14 years in recruiting, Jennifer turned years of expertise into The Career Essentials, where she helps people navigate resumes, LinkedIn, interviews, layoffs, and career pivots. She shares why relationships have shaped every major move in her career, where AI can genuinely help job seekers, and why technology still cannot replace someone who knows when to encourage you—and when to tell you the truth.

What we cover:

• Reaching the career milestone you wanted and realizing it no longer fits

• Leaving Amazon and booking a one-way ticket to South America

• Solo traveling through 25 countries and walking the Camino de Santiago

• Returning home and realizing you have changed too much to return to your old life

• Choosing continued travel instead of settling back into corporate America

• Building a freelance business while living abroad

• Creating a life around your work instead of organizing your life around a job

• Turning recruiting experience into The Career Essentials

• Navigating layoffs, career pivots, and an increasingly AI-shaped job market

• Why human connection still matters in hiring and career development

This episode is for anyone who has built a life that looks successful on paper but doesn’t feel right anymore, anyone standing between the familiarity of an old chapter and the uncertainty of a new one, and anyone who needs the reminder that changing your mind doesn’t mean you failed—it means you’re paying attention.

Jennifer’s story is an invitation to question the version of success you inherited, recognize the choices that are still available to you, and build a life that makes room for who you have become.

Learn more about The Career Essentials at https://thejenessentials.com/ and follow Jennifer at https://www.linkedin.com/in/jen-lindquist/

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Sarah Cooper Smith is the founder of North Shore Bath Co., a thoughtfully built company creating bath gloves designed to make bathing safer, warmer, and less stressful for babies and their caregivers. Drawing on her nursing background and firsthand experience as a mom, Sarah transformed a kitchen-table prototype into a launched, patent-pending product with potential far beyond baby bathtime.

Sarah’s bath glove addresses a struggle so many parents know well: keeping a secure grip on a slippery, squirming baby while trying to clean every tiny fold. She also developed a complementary drying glove to make the cold, chaotic transfer out of the tub easier for babies and parents.

This conversation is about more than a baby product. We get into how Sarah validated the idea with other parents, incorporated their feedback, and navigated manufacturing, branding, pitching, and product development as a first-time founder. She has a clear vision for how North Shore Bath Co. can grow, reach the people who need it, and expand beyond the baby market.

Sarah’s nursing background helped her recognize the broader possibilities for nurses, family caregivers, older adults, people with disabilities, and anyone who could benefit from more safety, comfort, and dignity during bathing. She is also being intentional about how the business grows, choosing to manufacture locally in Louisiana with the woman-owned Fringe Factory in New Orleans and looking for ways to create opportunities for other women along the way.

What we cover:

• The real-life bathtime problem that inspired North Shore Bath Co.

• Taking a product from kitchen-table prototype to market in six months

• Designing bath and drying gloves around grip, warmth, and ease of use

• Validating an idea with parents and building from their feedback

• Learning manufacturing, branding, pitching, and product development

This episode is for parents who have ever wrestled with a slippery baby at bathtime, nurses and caregivers looking for better tools, aspiring founders curious about bringing a physical product to market, and anyone who loves discovering a simple idea with the potential to make a meaningful difference.

North Shore Bath Co. has officially launched, and the bath and drying gloves are available to order at https://northshorebathco.com/ . Follow Sarah and North Shore Bath Co. at @northshorebathco_

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