The Bare Minimum Is Not a Love Language

One Sweet Single Life — Season 2, Episode 1

Welcome back to Season 2 of One Sweet Single Life! We’re opening this season with a conversation that has been sitting heavy on our hearts — because we keep hearing the same thing from women everywhere.

“He texts back.”
“He prays with me.”
“He opens the door.”
“He’s respectful.”
“He doesn’t cheat.”

And somehow… basic decency has started to sound like the grand prize.

So we’re asking the real question: When did the bare minimum become something women feel lucky to receive?

In this episode, we break down why so many women are mistaking baseline behavior for intentional love — and why raising your standard doesn’t make you unrealistic… it makes you honest.

What We Talk About:

What is the “bare minimum” — really?

We define the bare minimum as behavior that meets basic human decency, not proof of depth, commitment, or intentional pursuit. Things like:

• Consistent communication
• Keeping plans he made
• Basic respect and kindness
• Not pressuring boundaries
• Being polite or gentlemanly
• Even praying together — especially if you’re both Catholic or Christian

These things are good — but they are the baseline, not the reward.

🤍 Why Women Start Celebrating the Bare Minimum

Without shaming anyone, we explore why this pattern is so common:

• Modern dating culture normalizing inconsistency
• Scarcity mindset and “at least he’s not ___” thinking
• Social media optics vs real relationship health
• Fear of being labeled “too much”
• Being praised for being “chill” or low-maintenance

We also reflect on a powerful insight from Venerable Fulton Sheen about the dignity of womanhood — and how the standard women accept often shapes the standard men rise to.

The Hidden Cost of Settling for Basic

Accepting crumbs doesn’t protect your heart — it slowly confuses it.

We talk about:

• Emotional exhaustion
• Romanticizing small gestures
• Staying stuck in situationships
• Losing clarity about what healthy love actually looks like

Because the bare minimum keeps you just satisfied enough to stay… and just empty enough to keep questioning yourself.

And ladies, say it with us: We don’t settle. We don’t do basic.

Bare Minimum vs. Actual Intention:

Not all effort equals intention.

We unpack the difference between:

• Effort vs consistency
• Attention vs intention
• Chemistry vs character

Anyone can send a “good morning” text or show up once. Intention shows up in patterns, follow-through, sacrifice, and clarity.

Raising the Standard — Not the Fantasy:

Healthy standards are not entitlement, perfection, or control.

They look like:

• Emotional consistency
• Clear communication
• Mutual effort
• Respect for your time, body, faith, and values
• A growth-oriented mindset

You are not asking for too much — you may simply be asking the wrong person.

💌 If You’re Listening and Thinking… “Oh No, This Is Me”...

First — breathe.

Awareness isn’t failure.
You don’t need to rewrite your past — just tell yourself the truth moving forward.

Discernment over drama.
Wanting more doesn’t make you difficult. It makes you honest.

Season 2 Is About:

Clarity.
Standards.
Discernment.
Dignity.
Self-respect.

This season we’re going deeper into conversations that help women date — and live — from a place of confidence and truth.

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And remember, ladies: The bare minimum is not the prize — it’s the starting line.