Abel Menbrano’s story of finding life on the other side of achievement.

Summary In this episode of the Thrive360 Podcast, Mitch McKinney sits down with filmmaker Abel Membreno to explore his journey of rediscovering faith and purpose after years of resentment toward the church and chasing achievement. Raised in a ministry-driven Latino home, Abel walked away from church as a young adult, only to find himself unfulfilled and unhealthy in the life he thought he wanted. A sudden health crisis became the turning point that forced him to slow down, reevaluate his priorities, and confront the emotional and spiritual patterns he had been avoiding.

Through intentional growth—and a transformative experience at a Thrive360 retreat—Abel learned to release control, prioritize health, and align his work with purpose. His story offers a powerful reminder that God often uses disruption to redirect us, and that true success comes from living surrendered, not striving.

Takeaways

-Abel grew up immersed in ministry but carried deep resentment toward the church.

-Walking away from faith didn’t bring fulfillment—it magnified emptiness.

-A sudden health crisis became the catalyst for reevaluating his life.

-Abel discovered he wasn’t as healthy—emotionally or spiritually—as he believed.

-A Thrive360 retreat revealed blind spots and opened the door to renewal.

-Prioritizing health led Abel to realign his work with God’s purpose.

-Learning to surrender opened unexpected opportunities and clarity.

-God often uses divine disruptions to lead us into deeper purpose.

Chapters

00:00 – Introduction

01:30 – Abel’s upbringing in a ministry-centered home

03:20 – Resentment and walking away from church

04:50 – Chasing achievement and unhealthy patterns

07:00 – The health crisis that changed everything

10:20 – A shift toward purpose, creativity, and calling

13:45 – COVID, burnout, and confronting deeper issues

15:50 – The Thrive360 retreat and the revelation of true health

18:10 – Learning to say no and live from purpose

21:00 – Trusting God without a five-year plan

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Why burnout, pride, and moral compromise don’t happen overnight—and how to course-correct before the crash.

In this episode of the Thrive360 Podcast, host Mitchell McKinney sits down once again with Mark Montemayor for a deeply honest conversation about burnout, moral failure, and redemption in leadership. Together, they confront the painful truth that not all leadership breakdowns are caused by exhaustion—some stem from choices, compromises, and blind spots that slowly erode character and credibility.

Drawing from Scripture, real-life experiences, and decades of ministry, Mitch and Monte unpack what it means to be disqualified—not just from moral scandal, but from unchecked pride, financial compromise, and emotional unhealth. They explore why self-examination and accountability are non-negotiable for leaders who want to finish well.

Whether you’re leading a church, a team, or your own family, this conversation is both a warning and an invitation: to step into the light, seek help, and trust God with your healing and restoration.

Key Takeaways:

-Burnout and moral failure are warning lights—not the end of your story.

-Disqualification isn’t just about sexual immorality; it can stem from pride, greed, or loss of self-control.

-Scripture clearly outlines the qualifications—and heart posture—of leaders.

-Self-examination and confession are vital to prevent moral drift.

-It’s always better to confess than to be caught.

-Freedom begins with transparency and trusted accountability.

-Leaders must learn to trust God with their weakness and the consequences of honesty.

-You don’t drift into health—you have to take a step toward it.

Chapters:

00:00 — Welcome & Introduction with Guest Mark Montemayor

00:47 — Understanding Moral Failure Beyond Sexual Sin

03:49 — What Truly Disqualifies a Leader

07:17 — The Role of Self-Examination and Accountability

09:59 — Finding Freedom Through Confession and Community

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In this powerful episode of the Thrive360 Podcast, Mitch McKinney sits down with Monte to unpack the often-overlooked danger of drift—the subtle compromises and unchecked habits that slowly lead leaders toward burnout.

Drawing from deeply personal experiences, Mitch and Monte reveal how small neglects—like sacrificing sleep, ignoring physical warning signs, or pushing past healthy boundaries—compounded into crisis. They talk candidly about the shock of hitting a wall, the humbling recovery process, and the lasting impact burnout can have not only on leaders but also on their families.

But this isn’t just a warning—it’s a roadmap. You’ll discover how intentional rest, self-awareness, and faith can reset the course. Whether you’re “redlining” right now or walking alongside someone who is, this episode offers wisdom, practical steps, and hope for a healthier future.

Key Takeaways:

-Burnout is a slow drift, not a sudden event.

-Success can mask warning signs and delay necessary changes.

-Sleep, rest, and nutrition are spiritual and physical priorities, not luxuries.

-Ignoring health leads to long-term damage that impacts families too.

-Faith reshapes how we see rest and responsibility.

-Taking action early saves years of recovery later.

-Supporting others through honest conversations may be the most loving thing you can do.

Chapters:

00:00:00 Introduction to Leader Health

00:01:16 Personal Stories of Burnout

00:03:42 The Role of Faith

00:07:31 Importance of Rest and Recovery

00:09:49 Advice for Leaders Facing Burnout

00:11:43 Helping Others Recognize Burnout

00:12:51 Long-term Effects of Burnout

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