In this episode of Stop Over-Drinking and Start Living, I sit down with former client, Megan, to talk about the year it finally clicked.

She first worked with me in a 6-month group container, and later committed to a full year of private coaching — the year she became alcohol-free and stayed that way.

What makes her story so powerful is that the year before, she had the same goal: to go an entire year without drinking.

And she didn’t make it. It wasn't until she tried again the following year that it all clicked.

She shares 3 things that helped her not get overwhelmed by the big goal of going alcohol-free for so long. #1 will surprise you!

And 3 things that she does in the moments she has thoughts about a drink.

She also shares a story of how she coped with the stress of a long day of intense interviews.. and it's not what you would think!

Megan really is an example of what is possible, with dedication, never giving up despite lots of 'failures,' and consistent support!

This conversation is for women who are sober curious, want to drink less, or are exploring a healthier relationship with alcohol without shame, labels, or rigid rules.

If you want this type of support I'm excited to open up 3 spots to work with me privately that include a retreat at The Magic House in Lisbon, Portugal. If you are interested, check out the details here:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1_hJh_lbnLrm1Yt4q7DL4tlE-GjWETf5pfUtIwi2doTg/edit?usp=sharing

In this episode of Stop Over-Drinking and Start Living, I explore why kindness, not willpower, is what actually creates lasting change in your relationship with alcohol.

So many women try to stop over-drinking by being harder on themselves — using pressure, rules, and self-criticism — only to find themselves stuck in the same cycle.

But inside the Dry January community, something different is happening. When women feel emotionally safe, supported, and free from judgment, honesty increases, shame softens, and real clarity begins to emerge.

We talk about:

• Why being gentle with yourself is not the same as being passive
• How nervous system safety allows awareness and choice
• Why trying to “white-knuckle” drinking habits often backfires
• How compassion creates more sustainable change than discipline
• What it really means to change your relationship with alcohol in a kind, supportive way

If you’ve ever wondered why cutting back or taking a break from drinking feels so hard — even when you’re motivated — this episode will help you understand what might be missing: safety, support, and self-trust.

This conversation is for women who are sober curious, want to drink less, or are exploring a healthier relationship with alcohol without shame, labels, or rigid rules.

And if you want to deepen this work with me in a powerful, immersive way, there are a few remaining spots at The Magic House Retreat Center, my international retreat center for women ready to get alcohol out of the way and come back to themselves.

Learn more here:
https://www.angelamascenik.com/magichousefounderscircle

Ep 365 You Didn't Fail - You Returned (Changing Your Relationship with Alcohol)

In this episode of Stop Over-Drinking and Start Living, I share a simple question my yoga teacher asked us before practice:

“Why did you return?”

Not why you stayed consistent.
Not why you did it perfectly.
But why you came back.

This episode is about why returning to work on your relationship with alcohol — whether you want to cut back, take a break, or stop over-drinking — is not failure. It’s commitment.

If you’ve taken time away from this work…
If you’ve disengaged, started again, stopped again…
If you’re here listening after some time away…

This conversation is for you.

We explore:

• Why commitment isn’t about perfection or never slipping

• How returning is often the real work

• Why time away doesn’t erase what you’ve learned

• How to come back to changing your drinking without shame

• Why choosing again can be an act of self-trust and care

You don’t have to start over.
You don’t have to explain yourself.
And you don’t have to do this perfectly.

If you’re sober curious, thinking about drinking less, or want a healthier relationship with alcohol without AA or rigid rules — you’re in the right place.

And if you want to deepen this work with me in a powerful, immersive way, there are a few remaining spots at The Magic House Retreat Center, my international retreat center for women ready to get alcohol out of the way and come back to themselves.

👉 Learn more here:
https://www.angelamascenik.com/magichousefounderscircle