As the year comes to a close, it’s easy to feel like you’re supposed to be measuring yourself—what you accomplished, what you didn’t, and whether you did “enough.” In this New Year’s Eve episode of Still Becoming, Bobby offers a quieter, more honest perspective.

This episode isn’t about resolutions.

It’s not about reinventing yourself.

And it’s not about pretending January 1st magically resets everything.

Instead, it’s about recognizing that growth doesn’t happen on a calendar.

Becoming doesn’t start and stop with the year. It doesn’t care what month it is. Some of the biggest changes in our lives begin not in moments of excitement, but in exhaustion, doubt, and quiet decisions no one else sees.

Still Becoming isn’t a one-year project. It’s not “I’ll give it everything this year and see what happens.” It’s not a last shot or a deadline. It’s a long-term commitment to staying in the process—through sprint seasons, survival seasons, and rebuilding seasons. All of it counts.

In this episode, Bobby speaks directly to those who feel tired. Those who showed up even when they didn’t feel strong. Those who kept going quietly while others seemed to be “winning.” This isn’t about proving anything—it’s about choosing not to quit on yourself.

Becoming can look like training harder.

It can look like resting without guilt.

It can look like admitting you don’t have all the answers.

That’s not weakness. That’s wisdom.

Rather than asking, “What do I need to accomplish this year?” this episode invites you to ask deeper questions:

Who do I want to keep becoming?

What am I willing to stay committed to—even when it’s uncomfortable?

What version of myself deserves patience?

You don’t need a perfect plan. You don’t need massive momentum. You just need honesty, compassion, and the willingness to stay in the process.

As the year ends, don’t measure yourself by what you didn’t do. Measure yourself by the fact that you’re still here. Still curious. Still trying. Still listening to that quiet voice inside that says, “There’s more in me.”

There is.

This isn’t the end of anything.

It’s just another step.