Why She Goes First: Leading the Shift in Your Relationship"

In today’s solo episode, Janelle shares a deeply honest update on the Stay Married podcast—and why you’ll be hearing more of her voice in the coming weeks. She dives into the real (and sometimes uncomfortable) truth that in many partnerships, it’s often the woman who feels the disconnection first... and who is called to initiate the healing.

From navigating Dan’s resistance to couples retreats to vulnerably expressing what she truly needs in moments of emotional chaos, Janelle speaks straight to your heart. She explores how to invite your partner into growth without control, guilt or performance—and how to lead with softness, honesty, and grounded feminine power.

Whether you're craving deeper intimacy, considering couples work, or wondering how to have those brave conversations with your partner… this episode will leave you feeling seen, empowered, and less alone.

💫 Ready to join us in person? Our next couples retreat is August 17 near Geelong — and podcast listeners receive a FREE 1:1 session with their ticket. DM @staymarriedco or visit https://staymarried.com.au/dayretreat/

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In this raw and relatable episode, Janelle and Dan dive deep into the invisible weight many women carry in relationships — the mental load. From unspoken expectations to overflowing washing baskets, they unpack why men often don’t “see” what needs to be done, and how our brains are wired so differently.

Together, they explore how to bridge the communication gap without blame, shift out of resentment, and co-create a more supportive home life. Expect a real, unscripted convo filled with laughs, examples from their own marriage, and practical tips to help both partners feel seen, supported, and connected — even in the chaos.

Whether you’re carrying the mental load or trying to understand it, this episode is a must-listen.

🎧 Plus, don’t miss the cheeky Q&A at the end, where Janelle and Dan share honest answers to your juicy relationship questions!