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If manifestation hasn’t worked the way you were promised…
If vision boards, affirmations, and journaling feel powerful in theory but never quite land in your body…
This episode is for you.

In this deeply embodied conversation, Dustin unpacks the real reason manifestation doesn’t “stick” — and it has nothing to do with your mindset, worthiness, or effort.

✨ You’re not broken.
✨ You’re not doing it wrong.
✨ Your nervous system just hasn’t been taught that what you want is safe yet.

Inside this episode, we explore:

• Why manifestation tools fail when the body doesn’t feel safe
• How desire is not something to transcend, but a doorway to creation
• The hidden harm of worthiness-based spirituality and spiritual bypassing
• Why strategy without the right structure keeps women stuck
• How power, permission, and consent change everything
• Why safety — not positivity — is what actually allows creation

This episode speaks directly to the woman who:

• Has done the healing work
• Understands her patterns
• Is tired of trying to fix herself
• And secretly wonders why she “knows better” but still feels stuck

This is not another mindset talk.
This is nervous-system-based creation.

👉 If this episode helped your body soften even a little, you’re invited into the Skool community, where we ditch spiritual bypassing, exit shame loops, and reclaim power, permission, and pleasure to create a life you love.

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Your Nervous System Has a Shadow Kink (And It Was Born Out of Love)

If you keep repeating the same patterns in relationships, money, work, or self-worth—this episode will change how you see yourself forever.

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the concept of Shadow Kinks—the unconscious instructions your nervous system formed out of love to keep you safe, connected, and alive… even when those instructions are now outdated and costing you what you actually want.

You’ll learn:

• What a shadow kink really is (and why it’s not something to shame or “heal away”
• How shadow kinks form from unmet needs + survival love
• Why so much of the spiritual and healing world is actually stuck in spiritual bypassing
• How shaming or blaming your patterns keeps them locked in place
• Why integration—not “rising above”—is the real path to change

We explore two of the most common shadow kinks in depth:

• The Fixer (including the “Good Girl” instruction)
• The Hustler (where hustle = safety and rest feels dangerous)

You’ll also discover:

• How shadow kinks show up in love, money, leadership, and the bosses you end up working for
• The hidden superpowers each shadow kink contains
• How awareness allows you to begin updating unconscious instructions—without force, fixing, or shame

This episode is not about becoming someone new.
It’s about remembering who you were before survival ran the show.

✨ No spiritual cosplay.
✨ No emotional bypassing.
✨ Just awareness, integration, and embodied truth.

👉 Ready to discover which shadow kink is quietly running behind the scenes in your life?

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The Rise of the Integrated Empath | Why Sensitive People Are the Leaders of What Comes Next

Have you ever quietly wondered…

Is this all there is?
Do I even belong in this world?
Why do I love so deeply — and still feel unseen?

This episode is for empaths, deep feelers, and intuitive creators who are exhausted from trying to heal, fix, or improve themselves — and still feel disconnected, purposeless, or stuck.

In this powerful episode, Dustin Wheeler explores the rise of the integrated empath — and why the very traits that once kept empaths safe are now suffocating their power.

You’ll learn:

• Why empaths learned safety through scanning, pleasing, and over-attuning
• How empath superpowers turned into shadow kinks — unconscious survival contracts
• Why self-improvement and endless healing keep empaths stuck
• What it actually means to integrate your shadow instead of fixing it
• Why empaths are not broken — they are early
• How integrated empaths become anchored, embodied leaders

Dustin introduces the concept of what she's coined as Shadow Kinks — the hidden patterns quietly running relationships, money, business, family, and success — and why awareness alone isn’t enough to change them.

If you’ve ever felt:

• Too sensitive for this world
• Like you love deeper than others can meet
• Disconnected despite doing “all the work”
• Afraid to ask the question: Is this really my life?

This episode is a remembering.

You are not broken.
You are the creative force.
And you get to choose what you’d love to create.

🎧 Next Step:
Inside the Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators, you can take the Shadow Kink Assessment to discover which of the 9 shadow kinks has been silently running your life — and learn how to integrate it without shame, force, or fixing.

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