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Our father/daughter team is here to make your next trip a true vacation. We have long valued building lasting memories, celebrating milestones, and exploring together as a family. Now we want to help you do the same. To be honest, we have loved planning seamless, well-organized travel almost as much as the trips themselves. Now we want to help you!

As a Travel Advisor with Travelmation, our team is ready to turn your dream vacation into a reality. Contact us to start planning today.

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Andy and Bethany record a playful, slightly chaotic “puppy pod” episode of Slightly Off Script focused on ways they’ve changed their minds in marriage and life. They announced the podcast is shifting from mostly weekly releases to a twice-a-month schedule to prioritize stronger content, including interviews, one-on-one episodes, and live podcasts. They share a recent nearby hotel getaway they almost canceled, highlighting the value of putting time away on the calendar and how rested they felt afterward. Then they walk through “marriage assumptions rewritten,” discussing healthier views of conflict (aiming to accomplish rather than win), evolving perspectives on romance and intimacy (as a shared delight and the importance of talking outside the bedroom), flexibility in marriage roles across seasons, parenting shifts (less stress about food, more strict with electronics, and increased intentionality around in-home discipleship), caring less about appearances, and changes in confidence, insecurity, ambition, productivity, and impact. In a rapid-fire section, they joke about past trends and hobbies (including Bethany’s former love of PT Cruisers, her furniture refinishing phase, Andy giving up basketball, Bethany competing in power lifting, and their increased travel). They close by noting changes they’ve seen in each other, a funny puppy accident during recording, and promoting an upcoming marriage conference in Quincy, Massachusetts (first weekend of March) hosted by Harbor Church on the Cape at the Marriott, with extras like a photo booth and Boston Improv, plus directing listeners to andyneedham.com for their travel schedule.

00:00 Welcome + Big Update: Moving to a Twice-a-Month Release Schedule

01:37 Show Intro & The “Puppy Pod” Chaos (Maple May Joins the Mic)

02:54 Practicing What We Preach: The Overnight Mini-Retreat That Reset Us

06:29 Today’s Topic: Marriage Assumptions We’ve Rewritten

07:19 Conflict: From “Fighting Is Bad” to Healthy Growth & Long-Term Goals

08:35 Romance & Intimacy: Reframing Sex, and Talking Outside the Bedroom

10:48 Marriage Roles: Flexibility, Seasons, and Letting Go of “Traditional” Guilt

12:53 Parenting Shifts: Food Stress, Phones/Electronics, and Discipleship at Home

15:43 What Matters Less Now: Appearances vs. Healthy Family Priorities

16:46 Personal Growth & Identity: Confidence in Christ, Insecurities, and Aging Together

18:45 Insecurity Doesn’t Disappear—You Learn to Recognize It

19:09 Letting Go of the “Destination” Mindset (Faithfulness Over Success)

20:58 Being Faithful With Your Gifts (No More Competing or Comparison)

22:35 Redefining Productivity: Limits, Stewardship, and Grace

24:43 Impact Isn’t Always Bigger: Learning to Love Smaller Rooms

25:34 Rapid-Fire Lightning Round: Trends, Annoyances, and Old Hobbies

29:17 What We Never Expected: Powerlifting, Travel, and Growing Up

30:29 What’s Changed in Us: Chill, Driving, and Marriage Banter

32:41 Wrap-Up: Puppy Chaos, Conference Plug, and Final Goodbyes

Get Out There! - Our father/daughter team is here to make your next trip a true vacation. We have long valued building lasting memories, celebrating milestones, and exploring together as a family. Now we want to help you do the same. To be honest, we have loved planning seamless, well-organized travel almost as much as the trips themselves. Now we want to help you!

As a Travel Advisor with Travelmation, our team is ready to turn your dream vacation into a reality. Contact us to start planning today.

email andyneedham@travelmation.net

In this episode of 'Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show,' hosts Bethany and Andy Needham discuss the importance of staying connected in marriage, particularly in the mundane moments of daily life. They share personal anecdotes about how they connect through simple activities like drinking morning coffee, cooking dinner, and folding laundry together. Additionally, they talk about their new venture in planning travel, led by Andy and their daughter Mercy, and how travel can serve as another avenue for couples to bond. Tune in to learn practical tips and hear relatable stories that highlight the beauty of everyday connections and the power of resetting to keep your marriage strong.

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Your Travel Ninjas are Here

Get Out There! - Our father/daughter team is here to make your next trip a true vacation. We have long valued building lasting memories, celebrating milestones, and exploring together as a family. Now we want to help you do the same. To be honest, we have loved planning seamless, well-organized travel almost as much as the trips themselves. Now we want to help you!

As a Travel Advisor with Travelmation, our team is ready to turn your dream vacation into a reality. Contact us to start planning today.

email andyneedham@travelmation.net

00:00 Introduction and Banter

01:00 Weather Talk and Cold New England

02:25 New Travel Endeavor

04:08 Importance of Travel for Couples

07:58 Staying Connected in the Mundane

09:49 Simple Daily Connection Points

15:11 Fun and Random Ways to Connect

18:38 Errands and Everyday Activities

21:31 Intentionality in Marriage

26:27 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode of 'Slightly Off Script,' hosts Bethany and Andy Needham discuss the transformative impact of family mission statements with Jamie and Joelle Zimmerman. Sharing their journey from busy professionals to family mission statement pioneers, the Zimmermans reveal how their faith and intentional family planning have created a lasting legacy. Listen as they detail their unique three-part process: recognizing the urgency, appreciating family origins, and defining the family's future. Discover how these principles can offer clarity and purpose for your own family, and learn more about the Zimmermans' ministry, Mission Family.

For more information on Mission Family, visit: http://mission-family.org

00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script

01:02 Introducing the Zimmermans

03:14 A Journey of Faith and Family

04:18 The Story of Jamie and Joelle

13:33 Building a Family Mission Statement

16:23 Family Mission Statement: The Zimmerman Approach

17:02 Key Elements of the Mission Statement

17:39 Challenges and Compromises

18:50 Teaching Self-Reliance and Responsibility

19:54 Parenting Strategies and Role Modeling

23:34 The Importance of a Weekly Meeting

25:03 From Family Practice to Community Impact

27:56 The Three-Part Process for Building a Family Mission

33:10 Expanding the Mission Family Vision

35:47 How to Get Involved with Mission Family

In this heartfelt episode of Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham share their recent experiences with tremendous loss and grief. From the sudden deaths of loved ones to the passing of their beloved dog, they open up about the emotional rollercoaster they've been on. Despite the hardships, they reflect on the importance of community, the power of presence, and how their marriage has provided a foundation of support and strength. Join them as they discuss their journey through these challenging times and offer insights on communication, resilience, and the enduring power of love.

00:00 Introduction and Hosts

00:35 Podcast Recording While Sick

01:44 Reflecting on Camp Spofford Episode

03:09 Recent Personal Losses and Challenges

06:44 Importance of Rest and Reconnection

12:32 Support and Community During Hard Times

22:52 Navigating a Family Crisis

23:36 Pride in Our Children's Strength

26:44 Communication in Marriage

29:11 Balancing Responsibilities and Expectations

31:38 Remembering a Friend's Legacy

36:47 Coping with Pet Loss

40:55 The Ministry of Presence

43:42 Upcoming Events and Closing Remarks

In this special live episode, join hosts Andy and Bethany Needham at Camp Spofford in Spofford, New Hampshire, as they kick off the new season of the Slightly Off Script Marriage Podcast. Recorded with a live audience, Andy and Bethany dive into real-life topics, including maintaining strong marital bonds amidst parenting, navigating mental health challenges with children, managing technology use within the family, and addressing unhealthy patterns in friendships. The episode is filled with candid conversations, practical advice, and personal anecdotes aimed at helping you navigate the complexities of marriage and parenting.

00:00 Introduction and New Year Greetings

00:32 Special Episode at Camp Spofford

01:37 Live Podcast and Audience Interaction

02:27 Marriage Milestones and Cruise Adventure

06:12 Marker

06:24 Prioritizing Spouse Over Children

11:53 Mental Health Challenges in Children

19:20 Communication and Expectations in Marriage

21:40 Navigating Marital Conversations

23:21 The Power of Storytelling in Conflict

24:16 Personal Experiences and Reflections

26:08 Addressing Mismatched Expectations

26:49 Helping Friends in Unhealthy Patterns

28:06 Parenting and Convictions

34:46 Technology and Family Dynamics

42:23 Humor and Hardships

44:05 Concluding Thoughts and Farewell

Welcome to Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show! In this episode, hosts Bethany Needham and Andy delve into a candid discussion about managing depression within marriage. From personal experiences with postpartum depression to the importance of community, medical help, and self-care, this episode provides a genuine look at how couples can navigate difficult seasons together. Bethany shares her journey and practical tips, while Andy offers insights from supporting a spouse through tough times. Tune in for an honest conversation about the highs and lows of marriage and how to love each other through it all.

00:00 Intro

00:40 Life Updates and Weekend Recap

03:16 Holiday Plans and Christmas Lights

05:56 Discussing Depression in Marriage

10:19 Personal Experiences with Depression

15:52 Seeking Help and Community Support

21:43 Building Trust with Medical Professionals

22:34 The Importance of Researching Medications

23:28 Balancing Research and Discernment

23:50 Holistic Approaches and Personal Stories

24:39 Non-Medical Strategies for Mental Health

26:02 The Power of Movement and Small Steps

27:39 Supporting a Depressed Spouse

33:18 Mutual Support in Marriage

36:01 Practical Tips for Couples

40:51 Concluding Thoughts and Prayer

Join Bethany and Andy Needham as they discuss the ups and downs of marriage, including hilarious arguments, significant milestones, and the use of AI for brainstorming. Bethany shares her recent success in a powerlifting competition. The couple tackles 20 fun and sincere questions about their relationship —from love languages to survival skills —showcasing their sense of humor and deep connection. Tune in for an engaging conversation that is both entertaining and insightful, reminding us all that marriage can indeed be stupid good and wicked fun.

00:00 Introduction and Banter

01:12 Powerlifting Competition Highlights

05:52 Upcoming Events and Busy Schedules

06:49 AI Tools in Daily Life

07:48 Fun and Serious Questions

20:00 Discussing Pain Tolerance

20:34 Signature Moves in Arguments

22:18 Funny Marriage Moments

25:15 Heartfelt and Hopeful Moments

28:54 Dreams and Future Plans

37:52 Holiday Traditions and Reflections

40:55 Conclusion and Farewell