We get honest about the modern routine: wake to a small screen, work on a medium screen, unwind with a big screen, and fall asleep with the small one again. I share why I stopped obsessing over my child’s screen time and started measuring my own. We explore the real costs—anxiety, comparison, memory slip, and that itchy feeling of never quite being here—as well as the real gifts technology brings when it’s used on purpose. If you’ve ever wondered why your day feels thin after an hour of reels, this conversation will feel like a deep exhale.

You’ll hear practical steps that actually work in a busy life: 5‑minute social media limits with the Be Present app, switching your phone to grayscale to dull the dopamine, deleting high‑drain apps, and moving long replies to desktop. We talk about morning phone fasts that reset cravings, buddy accountability to keep promises, and how boredom becomes a greenhouse for creativity and calm. Along the way, we return to what matters: modeling healthy habits for our kids, finding quiet rituals that lower the anxiety hum, and noticing the small joys—snow-laced trees, a neighbor’s hello, a child turning pages just to hear the sound.

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If you’re ready to step out of the algorithm and back into your life, press play, try one habit today, and tell me how it goes. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more women can find the tools and community to build real confidence.

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What if your resolutions don’t stick because you’re starting at the wrong time? We press pause on the January 1 rush and walk through the Human Design New Year, a gentler pivot point that begins when the sun enters Gate 41. That shift gives us room to reflect on what felt off last year, release what no longer fits, and set intentions that match our actual energy instead of someone else’s timeline.

I share how a small nudge—updating a vision board when the energy changed—sparked a bigger conversation about timing, confidence, and self-trust. We explore the basics of human design in everyday life: why a manifesting generator partner needs multiple outlets to glow, why projectors work best with rest and precision, and how seeing your type, authority, and profile on paper can dissolve old judgments. The goal isn’t perfection; it’s relief, clarity, and momentum that lasts past week two of January.

Press play to trade hurry for alignment. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs a softer start line, and leave a review to help more listeners find their timing. Then tell me: what’s one belief you’re ready to shed before you begin?

Thank you for listening to Self(ish) Confidence! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend or on your social media and tag me @jess.clerke so I can personally thank you for helping spread some confidence + love!

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Ready for a new year that doesn’t demand a sprint from day one? We’re starting 2026 with honesty, a warm cup of chai, and a clear reminder that winter is for roots. The holidays were full, the house is still a mess, and yet the path forward can feel calm and strong when we stop forcing hustle and start trusting the season we’re in.

We reflect on a year of shedding—friendships, roles, routines—and how that release makes room for a steadier kind of confidence. Instead of a rigid resolution list, we choose one meaningful focus you can live across seasons. Think “be outside more,” then map it for winter, spring, summer, and fall. We share practical ideas for keeping goals visible where you’ll see them daily, and small daily actions that actually stick. Five minutes beats perfection. A sticky note on the fridge beats a forgotten note on your phone. Momentum grows when the plan fits your real life.

Hit play, exhale, and pick your one focus for the year. Share it with me for accountability, send this to a friend who needs gentler goals, and leave a quick review so more women can find a space where confidence feels like home.

Thank you for listening to Self(ish) Confidence! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend or on your social media and tag me @jess.clerke so I can personally thank you for helping spread some confidence + love!

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My Personal Account ---> @jess.clerke
The Podcast Account ---> @selfishconfidence