In this honest and grounding episode, we’re talking about self-validation, what it really means to believe yourself without waiting for permission, praise, or approval.

So many of us were taught, directly or indirectly, that our worth lives outside of us. That being chosen, liked, or affirmed is what makes us enough. Over time, that belief turns into people-pleasing, over-explaining, and constantly checking ourselves against everyone else’s expectations. But that isn’t confidence, it’s exhaustion.

✨ In this episode, we’ll explore: Why validation-seeking is often a trauma response, not a personal flaw. How to shift from asking “Do they approve?” to trusting what you know is true. Why confidence built from self-trust doesn’t disappear when opinions change.

Self-validation isn’t arrogance. It’s stability. It’s learning to rest without guilt, take up space without apology, and choose alignment over applause, even when it feels uncomfortable. When you validate yourself, rejection loses its grip and approval becomes a bonus, not a requirement.

This episode is an invitation to stop outsourcing your worth and start building a relationship with yourself that feels safe, steady, and honest. You don’t need to be chosen when you’ve already chosen yourself. 🤍