If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why do I always end up with the “wrong” kind of women,” let me tell you the difficult truth I’ve fortunately learned:

It’s not the women you attract that need fixing… The question is, what does that say about YOU?

This is the episode I break down:

* Why attraction is pattern recognition, not fate

* How your internal chaos broadcasts emotional signals

* Why men often attract women who reflect unresolved trauma

* How your ego, fantasy, and fear distort your dating radar

* The difference between being desired and being aligned

* What kind of bait you are casting and what that bait pulls in

This is not a blame game.

Not every woman who hurt you was toxic. Some were responding to who you were unconsciously broadcasting.

If you want to attract better, it starts with calibrating your own internal GPS.

You don’t need better women. You need a better YOU.

Recommended Reading and Studies:

* David Deida – The Way of the Superior Man

* Joe Dispenza – Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself

* Robert Greene – The Art of Seduction

* Amir Levine – Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment

* Pia Mellody – Facing Codependence

* ISST – International Society of Schema Therapy (ISST-D.org)

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* DM me on Substack if you want to talk through this

Let’s stop fishing with the wrong bait and broken hooks.

You attract who you are.

This episode breaks open the illusion of shared reality.

What happens when your version of the truth collides with hers? When your memory doesn’t match her story? When facts don’t matter because feelings already won?

I explore how truth becomes personal, how memory becomes emotional law, and why trying to prove your side only makes things worse.

We cover:

• Why two people can live the same moment and remember it completely differently

• How emotional truth becomes identity

• Why people weaponize memory to justify their pain

• What to do when she says, “That’s not how it happened”

• How perspective warps reality — and how to take your power back

• When defending yourself makes you lose

• The danger of trying to win inside her movie

Key quote:

“Your truth is not her truth. And if you need her to agree with yours, you’ve already lost control of the story.”

This is not about blame.

It’s about power, perception, and emotional dominance.

Listen if you’ve ever argued with someone who remembered everything differently — and made you feel like the villain in a story you didn’t even write.

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This episode is not about tactics. It is not about seduction techniques or psychological tricks. It is a reflection on a pattern I ignored for years and the cost of ignoring it.

I talk openly about how I lost every woman I truly loved. Not because they were wrong, but because I was unclear. Unclear about what I wanted. Unclear about who I was becoming. Unclear about how relationships actually work when intention is missing.

In this episode, I unpack:

• The hidden pattern behind repeated relationship loss

• Why drifting into relationships guarantees emotional failure

• How most men choose partners out of fear, not alignment

• The danger of not defining what you want before you fall in love

• Why chemistry without direction leads to heartbreak

• How compromising your identity slowly erodes attraction

• The realization that clarity is more important than intensity

This is not about blame. It is about responsibility.

I am sharing this to reflect. Because reflection breaks patterns. And because many men are repeating the same cycles without ever stopping to look at them honestly.

If you have ever loved deeply and lost painfully, this episode will hit close to home.

And if you are willing to examine yourself instead of pointing outward, it might save you years.

For more:

• Visit SeductionEd.com

• Join the MindWorkIn Mental Gym at MindWorkIn.com

• Message me directly on Substack if you want to talk about what this stirred up

Seduction is not just about attraction.

It is about awareness.

And awareness changes everything.

Thank you for listening.

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