Marriage starts with hope—but for many couples, years 7–21 bring unexpected challenges.

In this episode, John talks with Pastor Rodney Wilkinson, pastor at Gospel Fellowship Church and host of Married in the Middle, about the realities of navigating marriage during its most demanding season. These are the years filled with pressure from work, parenting, emotional distance, and unresolved pain—especially for men who often feel unseen or unheard.

You’ll discover:

• Why the middle years of marriage are often the hardest

• How past trauma affects present-day connection

• The emotional struggles men face in marriage

• Practical ways to stay connected through active listening

• Why staying committed through the middle leads to lasting reward

This conversation offers biblical perspective, honest insight, and hope for anyone committed to building a healthy, enduring marriage.

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Resources:

Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson

The Deep-Rooted Marriage by Dr. Allender

Rodney’s Podcast — Married in the Middle

Make Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Past with Kindness Changes Everything: Adam Young, Dr. Allender

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

02:05 Marriage in the Middle: Why married people struggle in years 7 to 21.

05:35Opportunities and Dangers within these years

09:19 Pain and trauma from our past and today 14:12- 25:20 The struggles of men in marriages

25:21 How “active listening” and staying connected is important 31:58-37:41 Takeaways

How do we raise sons who grow into men of integrity, perseverance, loyalty, and faith—in a culture that often pushes the opposite? Where does character formation really begin, and how do parents lead with both love and accountability?

In this episode of Rooted by the River, a family ministries podcast from Spanish River Church, host John sits down with Coach Brian Braddock, Head Football Coach at St. Augustine High School, to explore how character is shaped in young men—on the football field and at home.

Coach Braddock shares timeless insights on building trust, setting high standards, and holding boys accountable without crushing their spirit. Drawing from years of coaching and mentoring teenage boys, he helps parents translate leadership lessons from the sidelines straight to the dinner table.

You’ll learn:

• How to cultivate biblical character in boys and young men

• Why trust and warmth are essential for real accountability

• How fathers and parents can model integrity—even while wrestling with their own flaws

• Practical ways to create a home culture that draws out the best in boys

• Why acceptance and discipline must always go hand in hand

“I’ve come to learn that the building of trust is paramount to everything when we want to drive people to high standards and to have the right to hold them accountable to those standards.” — Coach Brian Braddock

Whether you’re a parent of sons, a youth leader, a coach, or someone passionate about forming godly men, this conversation will challenge and encourage you with wisdom that lasts a lifetime.

Resources:

Stand Firm and Act Like Men: Becoming the Man You Were Created to Be Instead of Who the World Says You Are, by Joby Martin

John’s Interview with Nancy Pearcy: Forming Godly Men

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Chapters:

00:00 Intro

01:06 Character development, maintaining trust and warmth

06:30 Setting bar high for success and requiring accountability

15:22 Wrestling with our own character while molding theirs

31:51 Takeaways

In this bonus episode, John and Virginia Houmes talk on "Spiritual Habits: Creating Rhythms of Faith in Your Family". You'll hear how seizing opportunities and practicing intentionality can shape your family's faith. The talk was given by the Houmes' at SRC's Mom Talks in November of 2025. Rooted by the River on:

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Resources:

Book Resources

The Bible Project on Youtube

Give Me An Answer (Cliff & Stuart Knechtle on Youtube)

The New City Catechism App

Habits of the Household Class (Winter 2026)