As a family drove home after church, the dad was complaining about everything. He said, “The music was too loud. The sermon was too long. The announcements were unclear. The building was hot. The people were unfriendly.” He went on and on, complaining about virtually everything. Finally, his observant son said, “But Dad, you’ve got to admit that it wasn’t a bad show for a dollar!”

So let’s just identify the elephant in the room right up front. Anytime a pastor starts talking about money in church, people immediately get nervous. Some of you right now are thinking, “Oh good. This is THAT sermon.” Others are checking to see if your wallet is still in your pocket. And a few of you are wondering if today might be a good day to suddenly need to get up to go to the bathroom!

Money has a way of doing that to us. You can talk about prayer, forgiveness, evangelism, even sin — and people will nod politely. But mention money, and suddenly everyone gets very spiritual and very suspicious at the same time.

And here’s the irony: the Bible talks about money all the time. Jesus talked about money more than almost any other subject—not because He wanted something from people, but because He knew money has a way of quietly taking something from us.

So if you’re feeling a little tense already, relax. This is not a guilt sermon. This is not a pressure sermon. This is not a “the lights might go off if you don’t give” sermon. This is a discipleship sermon.

Because 1 Timothy 6 isn’t actually about budgets. It’s about what kind of people we are becoming.

Discontentment is an American epidemic. Maybe we're susceptible to that epidemic because we live in the most affluent society in the history of the human race. And discontentment is fed by the advertising industry, as it promises us time and time again that our discontentment will disappear if we just buy what they're selling.

And though, intellectually, we know those promises aren’t really true, but something deep inside our soul - the part that’s not rational - cries out, "Maybe this will make my restlessness go away or fill up my emptiness." And yet, the tragic truth of creating this kind of hunger in a population is that these things will NEVER be the solution. Because the problem goes deeper than what material things can bring to my life.

Last week, we dealt heavily with showing respect and honor to all people in the church, focusing MAINLY on the generation gap. But I hope you saw that the underlying principle Paul was trying to get across to Timothy was all about respect. It would have been difficult for some to be in Timothy's position... being a younger leader, but having the responsibility of leading those who were his elders, and who by that measure, deserved honor and respect.

It's not always easy being a leader. It's a calling and a responsibility that, at times, doesn't win you many friends.

Leadership is a unique thing. Not everyone is called into it - and there are some perks to being a leader, it's a rough road. You are called to not just be out in front (a person who leads but has no followers is just taking a walk, I've been told) - but to make sure the direction you are headed in is correct, that you are looking out for the good of your team, that you make decisions that will build up those under your care. And again, those decisions aren't always popular.

I will tell you after 35 plus years in full-time vocational church ministry that leadership in the church is just as hard as leadership on a sub...and at times, I would venture to say, is even HARDER because you are taking the lead with folks who claim to be followers of Jesus, but who oftentimes don't ACT like it. They're your brothers and sisters in Christ, not just people in your congregation. And as long as there are people in churches, there will be times when people will act like people and other people will be wounded.

So with that in mind, I think this next passage of Scripture is good for a church in general to hear. It's about HOW a church can lift up its leaders, and avoid inflicting too many wounds on those who have been called to love and to lead the Church.