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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks

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Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!2024 Hygiene & gesundes Leben
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  • E282: Is This Normal? He Made AI Sex Videos of Us, and I Have Questions

    E282: Is This Normal? He Made AI Sex Videos of Us, and I Have Questions
    Oct 15 2026
    Your husband creates AI videos of the two of you having sex. You're only having sex four times a year. Or you tried a new position once, hated it, and have absolutely no interest in giving it another shot. Is this normal?! We're back with another round of Is This Normal?, where we answer your real-life sex and relationship questions and get into all the things you've been wondering about. And this week's questions are giving us PLENTY to talk about. We're unpacking some pretty interesting bedroom situations and sharing our thoughts on what's worth exploring, what deserves a conversation, and why your version of normal doesn't have to look like anyone else's. In this episode, you'll hear: Is it normal for your husband to create AI images and videos of the two of you having sex? What it means if you're only having sex four times a year, and whether there's a magic number couples should aim for What to do when your partner says she enjoys sex, but you're not convinced Whether it's okay to take a position or sex act off the table after one bad experience How to talk about trying something again when one partner is curious and the other isn't interested Some of these questions might sound familiar. Others might have you thinking, "Wait, people do that?!" Either way, you're going to want to hear our answers. Press play, then ask your partner which question surprised them the most. Ready to discover your next favorite position? One meh experience doesn’t mean you have to write off trying new things. And you definitely don’t have to retry something you didn’t enjoy. If you’re curious about what else might feel good, Ultimate Sex Positions gives you 47 positions to explore together, with clear instructions that take the guesswork out of trying something new. Inside, you’ll get: 47 illustrated sex positions, so you can see exactly what goes where Step-by-step instructions for getting into and out of each position Tips for moving together and finding your rhythm, so you can discover what works for your bodies You might find a new favorite, rediscover an old one, or have a really good time experimenting together. Check out Ultimate Sex Positions here: http://vmtherapy.com/ultimatesex ========================== THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR ========================== 👏Thanks Quince. Upgrade your everyday. Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada too. ➡︎https://quince.com/pillow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    54 Min.
  • E281: Am I the Asshole? Kissing After Oral, Weight Gain, and Bad Sex

    E281: Am I the Asshole? Kissing After Oral, Weight Gain, and Bad Sex
    Oct 8 2026
    Would you kiss your partner after they went down on you? What would you do if your partner wasn't enjoying the sex you were having? And how would you handle it if weight gain started affecting your physical intimacy? Oh, we've got some opinions about these ones. It's time for another round of Am I the Asshole?, where we read your real-life relationship stories, unpack the bedroom disagreements, and give our verdicts on who's in the wrong. In this episode, you'll hear: The husband who loves going down on his wife, but has some very specific rules about what happens afterward Whether refusing to kiss your partner after oral sex is a reasonable boundary or a bedroom double standard How weight gain can affect physical intimacy, and what happens when partners disagree about it What to do when one partner isn't enjoying the sex they're having Our verdicts on each story, including where we agree, disagree, and think things get a little more complicated Think you already know who's in the wrong? You might change your mind once you hear the other side. Grab your partner, press play, and see if you agree with our verdicts. We have a feeling a few of these are going to spark some pretty interesting conversations. Want to give your partner a few more reasons to say, "Do that again"? Let's talk about putting those hands and mouths to VERY good use. The Ultimate Foreplay Guides give you step-by-step techniques for fingering, oral sex, handjobs, and blowjobs, with expert guidance on exactly how to touch, tease, and pleasure your partner. You'll get separate guides for vulvas and penises, packed with techniques you can practice, experiment with, and make your own. And who knows? You might just discover a new favorite move tonight. Check out The Ultimate Foreplay Guides here: https://vmtherapy.com/foreplay ========================== THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR ========================== 👏Thanks Cure. Cure’s the electrolyte mix I’ve started reaching for daily. With clean ingredients and nothing artificial, it’s become easy to stay hydrated. Find it on Amazon or use the code PILLOWTALKS for 20% off. ➡︎https://curehydration.com/PILLOWTALKS 👏Thanks Blissy. Because you’re a listener, Blissy is offering 60-nights risk-free PLUS use code PILLOWPOD to get an additional 30% off. Your skin and hair will thank you!➡︎https://blissy.com/PILLOWPOD 👏Thanks Quince. Upgrade your everyday. Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada too. ➡︎https://quince.com/pillow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • E280: The Initiation Mistakes You Don’t Even Realize You’re Making

    E280: The Initiation Mistakes You Don’t Even Realize You’re Making
    Oct 1 2026
    Initiating sex in your relationship should feel exciting, not frustrating. But for most couples, it’s anything but smooth. Whether you're feeling stuck, rejected, or just plain awkward when it comes to getting things started in the bedroom, today’s episode is here to help! We surveyed our audience, and only 17% of people said they’re happy with how initiation is going in their relationship. That means a lot of us are struggling with: 🚨 Feeling like one partner is always initiating while the other never does 🚨 Getting caught off guard and feeling pressured to have sex in the moment 🚨 Waiting until the end of the night, when you're both exhausted 🚨 Using "lazy" or unsexy initiation attempts (boob honks, anyone?) 🚨 Feeling like your partner only flirts when they want something Sound familiar? You’re not alone. In this episode, we’re breaking down the most common mistakes couples make when initiating sex. 🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✅ The #1 reason why most couples struggle with initiation ✅ Why timing matters just as much as how you initiate ✅ The major mistake that makes sex feel like a pop quiz, and what to do instead ✅ What to say (and what not to say) when initiating sex ✅ How to make your partner feel wanted instead of pressured And of course, we’re sharing our top tool to completely transform the way you initiate, so you and your partner can experience more connection, better intimacy, and yes… way more satisfying sex! Ready to stop guessing what actually works? The Art of Initiation helps you figure out how each of you actually likes sex to be initiated, so you can make getting things started feel a whole lot more fun (and a whole lot less awkward). You’ll uncover your Initiation Styles, figure out what makes each of you more open to getting turned on, and get 61 specific ways to initiate that you can actually try together. And right now, you can get instant lifetime access for just $49 (normally $89). GET THE ART OF INITIATION FOR $49 →https://buy.vmtherapy.com/art-of-initiation Sale ends Tuesday, October 6 at 11:59 pm PT. Stay Connected Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander Get our weekly email, real talk, expert tips, and zero shame: https://vmtherapy.com/subscribe Subscribe to Pillow Talks wherever you get your podcasts! ========================== THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR ========================== 👏Thanks Quince. Upgrade your everyday. Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada too. ➡︎https://quince.com/pillow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    47 Min.
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