What if the very things disrupting your life are actually part of God’s invitation?

In this episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All, we have an honest, relatable conversation about inconvenience—the kind that sneaks into ministry, parenting, marriage, and personal growth. From interrupted schedules to stretched capacities, we explore how calling often requires adjustments we didn’t plan for and structures we didn’t ask to change.

We talk candidly about how home life is not separate from ministry—it is ministry—and why embracing inconvenience can actually open the door to unexpected blessing, deeper growth, and renewed spiritual focus. Along the way, we unpack the danger of an all-or-nothing mindset, the role of self-control in sustaining long-term faithfulness, and why sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is return to the basics.

If you’ve been feeling stretched, distracted, or quietly resentful of how “inconvenient” obedience has become, this episode is for you.

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STEPHANIE:

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In this episode, we’re sitting down with the incredible Alexandra Hoover—a compassionate writer, speaker, and the author of Eyes Up, Without Wavering, and You Can Let Go. Alex is known for blending biblical wisdom with practical, hope-filled insight, and today she brings all of that and more. She is a proud Latina, a wife and mom of three, and currently pursuing her master of arts in women and theology at Northern Seminary. She serves faithfully in her local church and loves helping others walk through life with faith and hope.

Alex opens up about the importance of healing from past offenses and the ways emotional wounds can quietly shape our leadership, our relationships, and even our ministry. She helps us understand how our history can show up in our present—and what God invites us to do with that. With vulnerability and clarity, she reminds us that while hurt is inevitable, offense is a choice, and healing is part of our calling as leaders.

Follow along with Alex:

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STEPHANIE:

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Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠

In this episode, we along with our guest Stephanie share a speedy conversation filled with rapid-fire questions, cherished Christmas traditions, shopping preferences, and creative pursuits. We highlight the importance of family, community, and faith, all while cracking ourselves up— like we do.

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Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠

Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠

JENNA:

Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠

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STEPHANIE:

Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠

Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠

In this episode, we’re sitting down with someone who embodies honesty, resilience, and a whole lot of Jesus — Stephanie Horton. Stephanie has been married to her college sweetheart, Joshua, for sixteen years, and together they’ve served in ministry just as long. They live in Dothan, Alabama, where Joshua pastors Timbers Drive Church. Stephanie homeschools their three kids, teaches English online, and is fueled by good coffee, real conversations, and the belief that everyone carries a story worth telling. One of her favorite quotes comes from Katie Davis Majors: “If one person sees the love of Christ in me, it’s worth every minute.” — and after hearing her today, you’ll see just how deeply she lives that out.

Stephanie opens up about her journey as a pastor’s wife — including the raw truth of walking through a toxic, spiritually abusive church environment. She shares how it all started on day one, how the slow wear of ministry politics took a toll, and ultimately how stepping away brought unexpected freedom, healing, and hope. Through community support, prayer, and a deep trust that God was teaching them every step of the way, Stephanie and her family found their footing again.

This is a vulnerable conversation — full of wisdom, humor (yes, she admits she needs some spending cash and will absolutely buy you coffee), and the kind of honesty that reminds every pastor’s wife: you’re human, your story matters, and there is always hope on the other side.

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JESSICA:

Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠

Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠

JENNA:

Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠

Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠

STEPHANIE:

Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠

Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠

In this episode, we sit down with the radiant and deeply authentic Renee McKinney, who has spent the last 21 years serving in ministry with her husband, Justin — a worship pastor, college professor, and (formerly) not-so-great singer… until God stepped in. Their story is full of the kinds of miracles you write down so you never forget: unexpected provision, supernatural spiritual gifts, and transformation that can only be explained by heaven’s fingerprints.

Renee opens up about the ups, downs, and “are we seriously doing this, Lord?” moments of ministry life — from raising three teenagers who serve right alongside them, to navigating spiritual warfare, to learning the beauty of obedience even when God’s path looks nothing like the plan.

You’ll hear how God literally rewrote Justin’s vocal cords, how Renee began receiving timely prophetic words for specific people at exactly the right moments, and why humility, honesty, and community matter more than polished perfection. Her stories will strengthen your faith and remind you that God still moves in ways we cannot explain.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by calling, unsure about spiritual gifts, or tempted to put ministry families on a pedestal — this conversation will meet you right where you are.

Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:

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JESSICA:

Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠

Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠

JENNA:

Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠

Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠

STEPHANIE:

Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠

Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠

In this episode, we sit down with Mary Read, a pastor’s wife, mom of three energetic boys, and lifelong learner with a heart for faith, family, and connection. Mary opens up about what it was like returning to the church she grew up in—yes, the very same pews, hallways, and people she knew as a kid—and navigating the unique mix of nostalgia, expectations, and change that came with it.

Mary shares about the challenges of stepping back into familiar spaces, how past relationships evolve, and the importance of confidence in ministry. She offers practical encouragement for new pastors’ wives, emphasizing mentorship, healthy boundaries, and the grounding truth of Scripture. We also chat about her life outside ministry—long walks, fiction books, home-cooked meals, and her newfound tradition of Friday date days with her husband, Pastor Matt.

This episode is full of wisdom, warmth, and real-life insight for pastors' wives in every season.

Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:

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JESSICA:

Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠

Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠

JENNA:

Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠

Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠

STEPHANIE:

Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠

Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠