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Summary
In this episode of Parent Coaches Unleashed, Carrie Wiesenfeld and Jessica Anger engage in a heartfelt conversation with Paige, a mother of a transgender daughter named Chloe. They explore the journey of recognizing Chloe's gender identity from a young age, the importance of support systems, medical guidance, and the challenges faced in social transition, sports participation, and dating. Paige shares her experiences, insights, and resources for parents navigating similar paths, emphasizing the need for open communication, understanding, and community support.

Takeaways

• It's essential to recognize and support a child's gender identity early on.
• Language around gender identity is evolving, and parents should be open to learning.
• Building a network of allies is crucial for a transgender child's acceptance.
• Medical guidance should come from competent professionals familiar with transgender issues.
• Social transition should be approached methodically and with preparation.
• Coming out can be a significant event for transgender children and their families.
• Medical interventions like puberty blockers should be discussed with a knowledgeable team.
• Participation in sports can present unique challenges for transgender youth.
• Safety concerns for transgender individuals, especially in dating, are paramount.
• Community support, such as camps for transgender youth, can be life-changing.

Resources

1. www.genderspectrum.org Many downloadable resources

General, Family, Educational, Faith, Medical and Mental Health, Allyship, Book list. You can also get speakers and speak to professionals

2. www.thetrevorproject.org

Non profit LGBTQ plus youth

They have a suicide hotline and so many resources

3. Local PFLAG and LGBTQ Centers in your city Just google it Many have support groups, activities, advocacy opportunities, groups for parents and grandparents as well

4. Psychologytoday.com to find a therapist using the therapist finder. You can enter your location, issues, insurance, preferences and other criteria and it will give you names, specialties, and contact information

5. For specialists in medical care, go to WPATH Provider Directory, and https://lgbtqhealthcaredirectory.org

6. https://harborcamps.org

Books

1. My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis

2. Raising my Rainbow by Lori Duron

3. The Transgender Child (and Teen ) by Stephanie Brill and Rachel Pepper

4. Raising The Transgender Child by Michele Angello

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Summary
In this episode of Parent Coaches Unleashed, Carrie Wiesenfeld and Jessica Anger engage in a heartfelt discussion about the fears and realities of parenting, particularly in light of social media's influence. They address a listener's concerns about losing her identity and the overwhelming nature of parenting, emphasizing the importance of support, connection, and the transformative power of motherhood. The conversation explores the balance between work and family life, the beauty of parenting, and the need for understanding and encouragement among parents.

Takeaways

• Congratulations on your pregnancy; it's a blessing.
• Social media can amplify fears about parenting.
• It's normal to feel like you're losing your identity as a parent.
• You can maintain connections while being a parent.
• The first few years of parenting can be grueling but rewarding.
• It's okay to seek balance between work and family.
• Parenting is a unique journey for everyone.
• You have options to create meaningful experiences as a parent.
• Don't judge other parents; everyone is doing their best.
• Cherish the love and bond you have with your children.

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Summary

In this episode of Parent Coaches Unleashed, hosts Carrie Wiesenfeld and Jessica Anger welcome Harlan Cohen, a New York Times bestselling author and expert on the college experience. The conversation delves into the unique challenges students face as they transition to college, the role of parents in supporting their children, and the importance of resilience in the face of rejection. Harlan shares valuable insights on how parents can guide their children through this pivotal time, emphasizing the need for open communication, understanding, and patience. The discussion also touches on the significance of building relationships with professors, navigating loneliness, and embracing the curvy paths that each student's journey may take. Harlan's practical advice and personal anecdotes provide a roadmap for parents and students alike, making this episode a must-listen for anyone preparing for the college experience.

Takeaways

• Harlan Cohen emphasizes the importance of meeting kids where they are in their unique experiences.
• Parents should focus on guiding their children rather than directing them.
• Understanding that struggles belong to the child while victories belong to the parent can help maintain a healthy dynamic.
• The first year of college is often filled with loneliness, and it's crucial to prepare students for this reality.
• Rejection is a natural part of life, and learning to cope with it is essential for personal growth.
• Students should approach new experiences with curiosity rather than a need to be accepted.
• Building relationships with professors can significantly impact a student's success.
• Parents should allow their children to experience natural consequences to foster independence.
• The college experience is not just about academics; social and emotional aspects are equally important.
• Every child's journey is different, and comparisons can be detrimental.

Contact Harlan Cohen

Instagram: @harlancohen

Facebook: @helpmeharlan

Tik Tok: @helpmeharlan

Podcast: The Harlan Cohen Podcast

www.harlancohen.com

Books:

The Naked Roommate: And 107 Other Issues You Might Run Into in College

Win or Learn: The Naked Truth About Turning Every Event into Your Ultimate Success

The Happiest Kid on Campus

Getting Naked: Five Steps to Finding the Love of Your Life (While Fully Clothed ans Sober)

Dad's Expecting Too: Expectant Fathers, Expectant Mothers, New Dads and New Moms Share Advice

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