What if there were a single word powerful enough to counter centuries of misogyny — and most of the world had never heard it? In Episode 7 of Owning Your Voice, host Angela Irwin sits down with author Augustine Blaisdell, the writer behind The Philogyny Project, who is on a mission to bring the word philogyny — the love and admiration of women and girls — into the global vocabulary.

Together they explore why naming something gives it power, how the absence of a word like philogyny has quietly shaped the way women are seen (and see themselves), and what it means to choose admiration over criticism — starting from within. True to the show's core thesis, the conversation connects philogyny to self-concept: you don't force a higher opinion of yourself; you expand what feels normal to believe. When a woman raises that internal thermostat, her confidence stabilizes, her voice strengthens, and her leadership grows.

This episode is for any woman who has waited to feel "worthy enough" before stepping forward — and for anyone ready to help shift the culture, one word at a time. To learn more, you can visit Augustine’s website: https://augustineblaisdell.com/

Why Expansion Feels Unsafe Before It Feels Empowering

In this solo episode of Owning Your Voice, Angela Irwin explores the neuroscience behind why growth, visibility, and stepping into larger opportunities can feel emotionally unsafe — even when they’re deeply desired.

Through a blend of personal storytelling, coaching insight, and accessible neuroscience, Angela explains how the brain is wired for safety and familiarity, often resisting expansion because unfamiliar experiences can be interpreted as perceived threats.

She unpacks why so many women remain stuck in outdated identities despite being highly capable and qualified, and how confidence is built through evidence gathered from action — not by waiting to feel ready first.

The episode includes reflections on Angela’s own journey moving to France without a network or language skills, leaving corporate leadership to become a coach and nonprofit founder, and launching Owning Your Voice despite discomfort and uncertainty.

Core themes include:

• The brain’s preference for familiarity over fulfillment
• Why expansion often feels unsafe before it feels empowering
• Identify “comfort zones” and visibility fears • Confidence as a byproduct of action and evidence
• The difference between real danger and perceived danger
• Releasing outdated versions of self

The episode closes with reflective audience questions designed to encourage viewers to examine where they may be mistaking discomfort for danger and where a larger identity may be required for their next level of growth.

A conversation with author and possibilitarian Patricia Sands

What does it look like when a woman truly expands her self-concept — not in theory, but in real life?

In this episode of Owning Your Voice, Angela Irwin sits down with her dear friend and award-winning author Patricia Sands for a conversation that is as warm as it is quietly revolutionary.

Patricia published her first novel at 60. Not because she had a business plan or a platform or a perfectly crafted brand. She started writing at her bridge club, for the joy of it, because the story wanted out. Today, 20 years later, she has 13 novels to her name, an international readership, and a life that keeps expanding — on the page, on the ski slopes of Canada, and in the sun-drenched villages of Provence she has come to call a second home. But this episode isn’t just about books. It’s about what Patricia’s story reveals about identity, timing, and the quiet courage it takes to say: “Maybe there’s more.”

Angela and Patricia talk about what it really means to raise the thermostat on your own life — not by forcing confidence or following a formula, but by simply allowing yourself to become something you hadn’t yet believed you were.

Patricia has known real hardship: widowed at 43 with two young children, she rebuilt her life with resilience and grace. Her story is not about a woman who had it easy. It’s about a woman who kept choosing expansion anyway. If you’ve ever told yourself it’s too late, or that the window has already passed — this conversation is your exhale.