Here's what nobody tells you: your purpose isn't hiding in a job title, a career path, or some grand revelation you're waiting to stumble upon.

We break down why the question "what should I be doing with my life?" is actually the wrong question. The real work? Transformation. Growth. Learning to feel your actual feelings (not what you think you should feel).

We walk you through making the list—the actual exercise that helps you filter every decision. Every job offer. Every relationship. Every opportunity. It's about asking: how do I want to feel? And then building your life around that answer instead of what you think you're supposed to do.

Scroll through LinkedIn right now. Count how many people have posted about career changes in the last three months alone. Lost jobs. New jobs. "Exciting pivots."

It's a lot.

But here's the thing—life is full of all types of pivots. The ones you choose and the ones that choose you.

We talk about how to actually move through unexpected change, why the only way out is straight through, and what to do when the pivot chooses you.

If you feel like you're in a weird life pivot right now, this episode is for you.

What's the worst thing that's happened from asking for help? Probably nothing. So why does it feel so terrifying? Here's what nobody tells you: there are three tiers of asking for help. Get the level wrong and things can get uncomfortable fast. Your inner circle, close friends, professional contacts—the rules change at each level. We get into why we've lost the built-in communities we used to rely on (spoiler: we used to have villages, now we have LinkedIn messages), why middle-aged people with mortgages are the least spiritually free, and how asking for help got tangled up with self-worth for both of us. Plus: what to do when people ask YOU for help and you're already drowning.