Nonbinary is my gender which means yes, I am trans. In this episode, I unpack what that actually means, why nonbinary people belong under the trans umbrella, and why it’s so frustrating to keep having our transness debated even inside the community. If that makes you uncomfortable, maybe ask yourself why

This episode dives into something we don’t talk about enough; how transitioning can shift the way we see our own sexuality. It’s not always about “changing” who you’re attracted to, but how those connections feel once your body, identity, and sense of self evolve.

I talk about what it’s like to carry old labels that don’t quite fit anymore, how being with certain people can bring back versions of myself I’ve outgrown, and why sexuality isn’t meant to stay fixed just to make other people comfortable.

It’s complicated, but it’s real.

Detransition is real , but the way it’s being used online? That’s a whole different story. In this episode, I’m unpacking the rise of the detrans trend on social media, and how it’s feeding anti-trans narratives that hurt the rest of us.

From viral regret videos to cis people feeling suddenly “validated,” this isn’t just about personal stories it’s about the bigger system that turns our existence into debate. I’m not here to deny anyone’s truth, but I am here to ask: who benefits when detransition becomes content?

Let’s talk about nuance, accountability, and why regret shouldn’t be weaponized