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  • Stop Being So Accessible

    Stop Being So Accessible
    Apr 6 2026
    Let's break down the high cost of emotional accessibility. We often mistake being "available" for being "kind," but without a perimeter, your peace is at the mercy of everyone else’s mess. Using the ancient leadership of Nehemiah, this episode provides a masterclass in rebuilding your life from the rubble of "yes." We’re diving deep into the psychology of Hyper-vigilance, the trap of the "Ono" distraction, and the "CEO Strategy" of the Sword and the Trowel. It’s time to stop building homes in cities with no walls. Pick up your bricks. Grab your sword. You are doing a great work, and you cannot come down. If this episode hit home, I want to hear from you. Let’s talk about your "Wall-Check" challenge this week. Instagram: @theycallmejess_ & @notsoparallelpod_ Email: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com
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    26 Min.
  • God, Are You Even Listening?

    God, Are You Even Listening?
    Mar 30 2026
    In this episode of Not So Parallel, we walk through one of the most honest prayers in the Bible, Psalm 13. Have you ever felt like God was silent? Like your prayers were going unanswered? Like you were stuck in the middle of a story that just won’t move forward? David did too. Together, we break down the emotional journey of this psalm from the plea, to the exhaustion, to the fear, and finally to a faith that doesn’t ignore the struggle… but holds it. This isn’t a surface-level devotional. This is a deep dive into what it actually looks like to talk to God when you’re tired, confused, and still waiting. If you’ve ever asked “How long, God?” this conversation is for you 📩 Contact / Connect I’d love to hear your thoughts, questions, or what this episode stirred up in you: Email: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com Instagram: @theycallmejess_ Podcast IG: @notsoparallelpod_
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    43 Min.
  • Almost Isn't Safe Anymore

    Almost Isn't Safe Anymore
    Jan 6 2026
    Almost obedience, almost surrender, almost ready… but almost isn’t safe anymore. This episode unpacks what it really means to stop circling change and start stepping into it — with Scripture, reflection, and holy tension. CONNECT WITH ME: Email Me: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com Instagram: @ theycallmejess_ // @notsoparallelpod_ SEE YOU ON 2/9/26
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    29 Min.
  • The Story You Tell Yourself

    The Story You Tell Yourself
    Dec 9 2025
    Feeling stuck? You’re not alone. In this episode, we dive into the story of Moses the insecure, hiding Moses and uncover how fear, old patterns, and self-doubt keep us from moving forward. Learn how to: Spot the story you’ve been telling yourself Break patterns that keep you small Take real steps to move, grow, and believe again LETS CONNECT: INSTAGRAM: @theycallmejess_ & @notsoparallelpod_ Email me! notsoparallelpod@gmail.com Recommended Reads: Boundaries for Your Soul I Shouldn’t Feel This Way
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    33 Min.
  • The Weight of Feeling Stuck

    The Weight of Feeling Stuck
    Dec 2 2025
    Feeling stuck can get heavy fast. In today’s episode, we talk about the invisible weight we carry, why it lingers, and what it actually takes to move again. If you’re in a season of “I don’t know what’s next,” this one’s for you. 🎧 Jump to 7:50 to start the episode WATCH THE VIDEO VERSION: TikTok: @notsoparallel CONNECT WITH ME: Podcast IG: @notsoparallelpod_ Jess: @theycallmejess_ BOOKS THAT HELPED ME GET UNSTUCK: • Boundaries for Your Soul https://www.amazon.com/s?k=boundaries+for+your+soul&crid=WAJWAPHWHQ1U&sprefix=bound%2Caps%2C222&ref=nb_sb_ss_p13n-expert-pd-ops-ranker_4_5 • I Shouldn’t Feel This Way https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400234808/?bestFormat=true&k=i%20shouldn%27t%20feel%20this%20way&ref_=nb_sb_ss_w_scx-ent-bk-ww_k1_1_14_de&crid=2F2RFU90MFD0B&sprefix=i%20shouldnt%20fee
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    37 Min.
  • They're Talking About Me.

    They're Talking About Me.
    Nov 18 2025
    This week’s episode, “They’re Talking About Me,” dives into what happens when your name is being used in stories you didn’t write. Through John 8, we unpack how Jesus covers, heals, and restores you when people misunderstand or misrepresent you — and we end with real steps to move forward without losing your peace.
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    28 Min.
  • The Apology I’ll Never Get

    The Apology I’ll Never Get
    Nov 11 2025
    This episode hits deep. We’re talking about the apology we’ll never get — the one that keeps us replaying the past, questioning our worth, and waiting for validation from someone else. Instagram: @theycallmejess_ Email: Notsoparallelpod@gmail.com
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    34 Min.
  • The Version Of Me I Outgrew

    The Version Of Me I Outgrew
    Nov 4 2025
    There comes a point where the person you used to be can’t come with you anymore. In this episode, we talk about what it really means to outgrow old versions of yourself mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. We’ll walk through John 15 and the pruning process, the tension of release, and the grace in realizing growth doesn’t always feel good… but it’s still God. This one’s for anyone who feels caught between who they were and who they’re becoming. LETS CONNECT: Instagram: @theycallmejess_ // @notsoparallelpod_ Email: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com
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    34 Min.