Guests: Derek Jackson and Jeff Gottfurcht, Co-Founders of CyberDive

Every parent knows the feeling.

Your kid has a phone.

You know the internet never sleeps.

And you are pretty sure the rules you grew up with no longer apply.

In this episode, Joe sits down with two dads who came at the problem from opposite worlds and built a real solution together.

• Derek Jackson, a former U.S. Army Intelligence Officer who tracked extremist activity online

• Jeff Gottfurcht, a finance professional whose life changed after learning about a tragic case of online exploitation

This is not a panic episode.

It is not a tech lecture.

It is a grounded, honest conversation about digital safety, trust, transparency, and parenting in a connected world.

• Why banning phones and apps often backfires with kids

• How online bullying has changed now that kids can never "go home" from it

• The real dangers parents underestimate on social platforms

• Why shame-based parenting fails in digital spaces

• How algorithms shape behavior, tone, and identity in kids

• The difference between privacy and safety for children

• Why involvement beats restriction every time

• How transparency can actually improve parent-child conversations

• The true story behind online sextortion and why it matters

• What parents should look for before giving a child their first phone

Your child does not need fear.

They do not need silence.

They do not need you pretending the internet is not there.

They need a connection.

They need guidance.

They need you involved early, not reacting late.

Joe and his guests discuss the Aqua One Phone by CyberDive, a device designed specifically for families that want visibility without constant confrontation.

Key features discussed include:

• Full-screen activity transparency for parents

• Instant Replay to review on-screen activity

• Built-in nudity prevention to stop sextortion before it starts

• No blind spots across apps, texts, or encrypted platforms

• Designed to encourage conversations instead of punishment

• Learn more about CyberDive and the Aqua One Phone: https://cyberdive.co

• More episodes and resources: https://nosittingonthesideline.com

This conversation goes beyond apps and settings.

It is about how parents show up in a world their kids already live in.

If you are raising a child today, this episode is not optional listening.

Terry Iverson has spent more than 40 years in manufacturing, carrying on a family legacy built on precision, craftsmanship, and mentoring. In this conversation, Terry talks about the future of skilled work, why trades matter, and how young people can build meaningful careers without drowning in debt.

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We cover the shift away from hands-on skills, the importance of soft skills and critical thinking, and how mentorship shapes confidence and opportunity. Terry also shares why manufacturing is still a strong path, how AI is changing work, and how parents can help their kids explore real-world skills early.

This episode is about purpose, opportunity, and the power of showing someone what they're capable of.

• Terry's path into a 100-year family manufacturing legacy

• The truth about work ethic, balance, and younger generations

• Why trades and manufacturing still create strong careers

• How AI and automation are shaping the future of work

• The value of soft skills and critical thinking

• How mentorship changes lives

• Why college isn't the only path to a great career

• Terry's "Camp Champ" program and how it inspires students

• How parents can guide kids toward purpose, skills, and confidence

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YouTube: Champion Now
Books: Finding America's Greatest Champions and Inspiring Champions in Advanced Manufacturing

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Some people feel the world in a deeper way.

You might walk into a room and notice tension right away.

You might catch a shift in someone's voice before they even admit something is wrong.

You might replay moments for days because your mind doesn't let them go.

If this sounds familiar, this episode will help you make sense of it.

I sat down with Todd Smith, host of the podcast Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People. Todd has spent years helping people understand why sensitivity isn't weakness. It's a real trait that shows up in about 15 to 20 percent of the population.

What it really means to be a compassionate person.

Todd explains the DOES model, which breaks sensitivity into four parts: depth of processing, overwhelm, emotion, and sensitivity to subtle cues.

Why stress hits deeper for some people.

We explore how stress can turn small problems into significant reactions and how sensitivity increases when life gets loud.

How Byron Katie's Work Can Calm Your Mind.

Todd walks through a simple method that helps you question stressful thoughts and see situations with more clarity.

Parenting and sensitivity.

We talk about what it's like raising a child when you already feel a lot, and how to stay steady when your kid isn't giving you much to work with.

Caregiving and family stress.

Todd shares his experience caring for a family member with dementia and how sensitivity plays a role in the pressure, the frustration, and the emotional weight.

Why boundaries matter.

We discuss why it's so hard for sensitive people to say no, and how to protect your energy without guilt.

This episode is for you if you:

• Feel drained by crowds or noise

• Pick up on other people's moods fast

• Replay conversations for days

• Struggle with conflict

• Need more quiet than the people around you

• Want tools to lower stress and shift your reactions

Todd Smith is a coach who helps highly sensitive people manage stress and understand their wiring.

He is the creator of True Inner Freedom and the host of the podcast Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People.

Learn more about Todd Smith:

Website: trueinnerfreedom.com

Podcast: Search "Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People" on your favorite podcast app

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