Beauty and harm can coexist in our history, and healing starts with honest reflection and shared action.

This episode focuses centers on healing from racial trauma and why honest history is essential to repair. She traces how race has shaped American law and memory, then connects that history to daily practice in the family and child welfare system. From the Declaration and Constitution to the Civil Rights Amendments, from birthright citizenship to repatriation and guest worker policies, and from post-emancipation child taking to the work of the Freedmen’s Bureau, Shanelle names patterns of othering and invites listeners to build systems that protect dignity and equity. You are invited to check out Skin Deep, the History of Child Welfare by Race, and Going Deep Together for organizations that want structured conversations that lead to change at www.skindeepcw.com.

Sometimes our help looks good on paper but doesn’t help in practice. In this episode, Shanelle names “fake help,” shows how to co-create real solutions with the people affected, and explains where 360° Family and Child Welfare Workshops solves a specific problem by strengthening partnerships and prepares a community for service in the family and child welfare system.

You will learn:

• What “fake help” is and how to stop creating extra work for families and staff.
• Three common blockers: fixing problems without the people affected, over-engineering solutions, and over-automating connection.
• The 360º Workshop unlocks progress within family and child welfare agencies to solve a concrete cross-agency issue, rebuild working relationships, or to prepare partners for new responsibilities or projects.

Take the SYNCing Child Welfare 360º Assessment today to partner effectively: www.syncingchildwelfare.com & follow up with a workshop for your organization!

Shanelle and guest Steve Gonyea wrap up their conversation by digging into why many agency-run “support groups” have good intentions, but miss the mark, especially when supervisors or case managers are in the room. Caregivers, parents, and youth will not share real concerns when the people who evaluate them are listening, so the space is not actually supportive. The conversation covers what new and veteran caregivers really need, which are: timely answers, plain language guidance, and safe places to learn how to navigate court, school, medication questions, and after-hours crises.

Shanelle also shares monthly webinar plans, the idea of training after the train wreck, and invites listeners to the 360º Assessment for partners in the family and child welfare system.

Key takeaways

• Support groups must be peer-led or community-hosted with psychological safety, otherwise honest feedback will not surface.

• Practical help beats platitudes, even a fast “no” is better than silence when a caregiver is in crisis.

• Make court understandable and accessible for youth and caregivers, name what to wear, how to address the judge, and how to share information.

• Partner across the ecosystem, families need timely answers, workers need realistic roles, volunteers need clear rules.

Take the SYNCing Child Welfare 360º Assessment today to partner effectively: www.syncingchildwelfare.com!

Steve Gonyea, Co Host, Finding Common Ground

Podcast website: https://www.fcgadvocacy.org/about-steve-gonyea

Sensor Barn solution: A vibrant, calming haven for kids and adults with sensory needs (Spectrum News).

Email: steve_gonyea@yahoo.com

Shanelle sits down with advocate and long-time therapeutic foster parent Steve Goneya to talk about what is not working and what communities can build right now. Steve has welcomed 178 children through respite and high-needs care, fought for supports for high health needs children, and learned the hard truth about bureaucracy, turnover, and waitlists. Instead of waiting, he built solutions: an Autism Barn that became a community hub and an Ability Bus model that partners with veterans to get youth and adults with disabilities to appointments and life-giving activities when agencies do not run nights or weekends. This is part one of the conversation. Links to Steve’s projects and Shanelle’s 360º Assessment are in the show notes.

You will hear

• How years in family care and therapeutic foster care shaped Steve’s approach to high-needs placements
• Why adoption decisions must consider lifelong supports and eligibility, and how delays and paperwork keep youth waiting.
• Community solutions that work now: a private Autism Barn that became a regional resource and an Ability Bus run with veterans that agencies could not replicate due to after-hours gaps.
• Why Steve is organizing storytellers and aged-out youth, meeting legislators, and developing a national transportation initiative with a film partner to seed similar models in other states.

Key takeaways

• Build the environment you wish existed. Small, concrete projects can scale when partners see them working.
• Accountability and support are both true. Families need timely decisions and workers need realistic caseloads and clear roles.
• Community partners can move faster than bureaucracy. Veterans, faith groups, and local donors can fill critical gaps.

Steve Gonyea, Co‑Host, Finding Common Ground

Podcast website: https://www.fcgadvocacy.org/about-steve-gonyea

Sensor Barn solution: A vibrant, calming haven for kids and adults with sensory needs (Spectrum News).

Email: steve_gonyea@yahoo.com

Take the 360º Assessment today to partner effectively: www.syncingchildwelfare.com

What does partnership and collaboration look like in your organization? Often times we focus solely on our role and job- but in the family and child welfare system all the systems matter.

The 360º Assessment is HERE! Take it today to understand…

-Recognize where you fit on the 360º family and child welfare map -Determine how you work with other partners -Gauge how supported or overwhelmed you feel -Access your organization’s readiness to partner and build trust with families

Listeners learn why beginning at the beginning matters, how influence extends beyond agencies that work on cases 90 percent of the time, and how better partnership reduces harm and restores continuity for families.

Who this helps

Caseworkers, supervisors, attorneys, CASA and GAL, foster and kin caregivers, school and healthcare partners, faith and community leaders, mandated reporters, and anyone who influences decisions in the family and child welfare system.

Action Items

- Take the 360º Assessment - it takes about 5 minutes to complete and it can be found at https://syncingchildwelfare.com/360o-assessment/.

- Join the Newsletter to stay updated on the SYNCing Child Welfare Program: HERE

Episode summary

A caseworker’s anonymous post about hard relationships with foster parents sparks a real conversation about communication, role clarity, and burnout. Shanelle explains why case workers (& no one!) cannot hold everything at once, how conflicting goals show up, and what it takes to align teams so families move forward. She also introduces the SYNCing Child Welfare approach, including a free 360 assessment, a 360 workshop that maps ten connected systems, and monthly 360 webinars, all designed to help staff, caregivers, and volunteers reclaim time and peace of mind in the family and child welfare system.

You will learn:

• Why delayed responses and unclear roles strain foster parent relationships, and how to reset expectations early.
• How to plan for partnership and also plan for pushback, since disagreement is guaranteed.
• Ways to keep the team aligned when the goal is reunification, including how to surface real safety concerns without drowning in noise.
• What the 360 assessment, 360 workshop, and 360 webinars cover, and how they support retention, partnership, and trust with families.

Program invite

You are personally invited to join an online session to learn more. Shanelle is hosting two online SYNCing Child Welfare preview sessions in early 2026: Wednesday, January 7 (9:00–9:45 a.m. CT) REGISTER HERE or Thursday, January 8 (4:00–4:45 p.m. CT) REGISTER HERE.

Stay updated on the latest SYNCING Child Welfare updates by joining the newsletter HERE.

Families need information fast, in plain language, and backed by real partnerships. In this episode of Navigating Child Welfare Shanelle shares what is coming in 2026 and how SYNCing Child Welfare will help parents, foster and kinship caregivers, and partners move through the family and child welfare system with less confusion and more confidence.

She discusses prevention services that keep families out of foster care, parent education that clarifies court and case plans, and cross-system collaboration that makes case management sustainable. She also discusses the upcoming 360º workshop for workers and volunteers and the 360º webinar series for parents and partners.

Highlights and takeaways

• Information creates transformation, then families can take the next step toward reunification or another stable plan

• Programs built in isolation stall, partnerships move cases forward

• Plan for conflict in collaborations and use shared values plus clear responsibilities to stay aligned

• Equity is daily work and should be baked into decisions, timelines, and access

🎧 Listen now 🗓️ Join a SYNC info session in January 2026.

You are personally invited to join an online session to learn more. Shanelle is hosting two online SYNCing Child Welfare preview sessions in early 2026: Wednesday, January 7 (9:00–9:45 a.m. CT) REGISTER HERE or Thursday, January 8 (4:00–4:45 p.m. CT) REGISTER HERE.

Stay updated on the latest SYNCING Child Welfare updates by joining the newsletter HERE.

Episode summary

Hair isn’t “extra.” For many youth in foster care, it’s identity, culture, memory and a daily signal of dignity. Shanelle talks with Aisha Walker, founder of The Walker Foundation, about why a lack of hair care can trigger bullying, low self-esteem, “hair depression” and how culturally competent care helps children feel connected and confident. You’ll hear concrete tips for foster/kin caregivers, how bonding happens in everyday routines, and the Walker Foundation’s programs from free Hair Fairs to school curricula and in-home support. Shanelle also invites listeners to early-2026 preview sessions for SYNCing Child Welfare.

You’ll hear about

• Why hair care is part of basic hygiene, identity, and culture, not a luxury.
• Common pain points: No appropriate products, daily washing myths, texture confusion, bullying, and confidence hits.
• Bonding through care: Routines, and conversations that build trust and belonging.
• Walker Foundation programs: Free hair services “Hair Fairs,” Hair Talk Academy (12-week curriculum), Crown Kings (barber mentoring), hospital services, custom wigs, and monthly memberships (including in-home stylists).

Quick tips for caregivers (any skill level)

• Learn the basics first: proper wash cadence, detangling, and products by texture; styles can come later.
• Don’t assume a child “just needs a hairstyle.” Ask: “What would help you feel confident and cared for today?”
• Advocate at school/activities for culturally responsive grooming policies and protective styles.
• Make it bonding time: consistent routines build trust and a sense of being known.

Resource spotlight

• The Walker Foundation contact information: Facebook & Instagram- TheWalkerFoundationKC and Website- www.thewalkerfoundation.org Email: info@thewalkerfoundation.org

Program invite

• You are personally invited to join an online session to learn more. Shanelle is hosting two online SYNCing Child Welfare preview sessions in early 2026: Wednesday, January 7 (9:00–9:45 a.m. CT) REGISTER HERE or Thursday, January 8 (4:00–4:45 p.m. CT) REGISTER HERE.

• • Stay updated on the latest SYNCING Child Welfare updates by joining the newsletter HERE.