When we're wounded in life, we often start to "perform" for love and approval. But when what we do on the outside is rooted in pain, we will always end up with results that are not what we really want.

In this episode, I share how pain and woundedness impair the way we relate to others, particularly as it relates to God's design for femininity and masculinity. But I also talk about how, through pain, we learn much about what it is to stop performing and be truly present, and the life-giving invitation to others that our lives become in the process.

Check out Advance for Individuals: An Accelerated Program to Repair the Spiritual Damage of Relationship Harm & Trauma

Listen ep 196 with Stephanie Rouse- "What if You Don't Have to Just Take What You Can Get?"

Learn more about healing painful moments with the free PDF "God Within Us: A Guide to Processing Pain with Jesus"

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Anger is one of the more complicated emotions we have to deal with. Not only does it not feel great, but sometimes it seems to remain- even after you've done the work to forgive someone.

In this episode, I share about an experience that caused me to realize that something deeper is often hidden inside of our anger. I also share how thinking differently about your wounds can give you the patience and perspective you need to actually benefit in the aftermath.

Check out Advance: A 7 Week Program to Repair the Spiritual Damage of Relationship Harm & Trauma

Learn more about healing painful moments with the free PDF "God Within Us: A Guide to Processing Pain with Jesus"

Follow me on Instagram @themichelledonnelly or Facebook @themichelledonnelly

Check out my books and services at uncommonvalor.co

When it comes to the things we struggle with in life, sometimes we think they are too small for God to care about. Other times, we think they are so big that maybe we are just supposed to learn to take care of things on our own.

Neither of those things are true.

In today's episode, I share about a very small example of what it looks like to fully depend on God, and how it changes the way we look at challenges in life, both big and small.

Check out Advance: A 7 Week Program to Repair the Spiritual Damage of Relationship Harm & Trauma

Learn more about healing painful moments with the free PDF "God Within Us: A Guide to Processing Pain with Jesus"

Follow me on Instagram @themichelledonnelly or Facebook @themichelledonnelly

Check out my books and services at uncommonvalor.co