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Mindset Money Success

Mindset Money Success

Von: Loraine Marshall
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Mindset, Money, Success is a Podcast aimed at discovering what it takes to be successful.

I believe that you can’t become successful unless you have the right mindset. What do you think? I will be talking with entrepreneurs to discover their secrets to success. First up, chatting to Single, Sexy, and Successful Women. I also want to raise awareness of experiences of adversity and how these can impact individuals. My story covers the three Ds in relationship endings. Check out my Bio. I’m a self-published author and survivor of hidden emotional abuse that was revealed to me post-separation. If money were not a concern, I would buy a home and run a retreat to help women in recovery from trauma after any of the three Ds in relationship endings.

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  • Mindset Money Success: Property Rights and Economic Abuse in the UK and Spain
    Mar 11 2026

    Intro In this episode of Mindset Money Success, host Loraine Marshall shares a deeply personal and legal look into the world of cohabitation through an excerpt from her upcoming book, After the Discard - No Divorce Required. Loraine explores the "sudden termination" of relationships, the discard, and the precarious legal positions many women find themselves in when living together without the protections of marriage. Drawing from her own harrowing experience in Spain and the UK, she discusses the gaps in current laws regarding property, inheritance, and the systemic reality of economic abuse.

    4 Best Moments

    • The Reality of the Discard: Loraine recounts her personal experience of being "discarded" in Spain, left in a property she helped build but was not legally named on, eventually facing the termination of her water and electricity.
    • The "Ravine" in the Law: A striking look at how current legislation fails to recognise non-earning contributions, such as homemaking and caretaking, leaving women disproportionately disadvantaged during a breakup.
    • The Universal Tactics of Abuse: Loraine explains that while legal borders exist, the tactics of an abuser, specifically the systemic dismantling of a partner's financial security, are universal across the UK, Spain, and beyond.
    • The Double-Edged Sword of "No Divorce Required": The realisation that while an abuser doesn’t need a courtroom to end a cohabiting relationship, the survivor is also denied the automatic asset-division protections that a divorce court provides.

    4 Key Takeaways

    • Trust is Not a Legal Contract: Many couples live their relationships on trust, but without a cohabitation agreement or being named on property deeds, that trust offers zero legal protection if the relationship ends or a partner dies.
    • The Cohabitation Gap in the UK: There are no automatic rights to property, pensions, or inheritance for cohabiting couples, regardless of the length of the relationship or the number of children.
    • Navigating Spanish Law: Couples in Spain can register as a pareja de hecho (civil union) to gain some legal recognition, but this does not automatically guarantee any property or asset claims.
    • Economic Abuse Recognition: While the UK Domestic Abuse Act 2021 finally recognises economic abuse as a statutory crime, civil and cohabitation laws still lag, often failing to provide the financial remedies needed for survivors to survive after leaving.

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    If you found these insights valuable, consider supporting the podcast via Loraine’s Buy Me A Coffee page or booking a mentor clarity session to help navigate your own post-separation transition

    Connect on other Platforms and find all links here.

    https://linktr.ee/loraine_mms

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    23 Min.
  • Healing Out Loud And How Mindset Plays A Critical Role In Trauma Recovery.
    Mar 4 2026

    Intro In this episode of Mindset Money Success, host Loraine Marshall explores the "radical, strategic alternative" to the silence of psychological abuse: healing out loud. For many women over 40, post-separation abuse often lives in the shadows of legal documents and depleted bank accounts. Loraine discusses how the act of vocalising your truth serves as the ultimate antidote to gaslighting, helping you transition from a state of constant alarm to a life of peace, clarity, and eventually, financial independence.

    4 Best Moments

    • The Survival Station: Loraine offers a powerful reminder that if you are standing in the wreckage of your life, you are in survival mode—but "survival is a station, and it's not your destination".
    • The Filing Cabinet Analogy: A striking metaphor for the disjointed fragments of trauma. Loraine describes the confusion of recovery as a filing cabinet that has been emptied onto the floor, leaving the survivor to decide which memories to keep and which to "throw in the trash".
    • Calming the Brain's Alarm System: An insightful look at the science of recovery, noting that putting feelings into words can diminish the response of the amygdala, helping the nervous system finally calm down after years of chronic stress.
    • Internalising the Truth: A raw segment where Loraine contrasts the abuser’s negative voices (e.g., "you are nothing without me") with the empowered mindset shifts (e.g., "I am capable of finding my financial independence") necessary for post-traumatic growth.

    4 Key Takeaways

    • Prioritise Safe Environments: While vocalising your story is transformative, it must occur in safe spaces—such as with a trauma-informed therapist or a trusted inner circle—to avoid further harm or re-traumatisation.
    • Shift from Internal Doubt to Objective Reality: Journaling and documenting specific incidents help survivors recognise hidden patterns of manipulation like love bombing and blame shifting, validating that their experiences are real.
    • The Power of Mindset in Healing: Recovery involves "deliberate cognitive restructuring" to unlearn ingrained beliefs of worthlessness and replace them with a growth mindset that leverages the brain’s neuroplasticity.
    • Economic Empowerment is Possible: Economic abuse creates a mindset of fear and scarcity. Moving toward financial independence involves acknowledging the abuse, seeking financial literacy, and believing you deserve security and independence.

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    If you are looking for personalised strategic guidance to help you navigate this transition, you can book a mentor clarity session via the link in the show notes.

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    18 Min.
  • The Frequency of Freedom: 6 Steps to Rebuild Your Life After Loss
    Feb 25 2026

    In this moving episode, Loraine Marshall shares her personal journey of rising from the ashes of a decade-long "manipulationship" that cost her her home, business, and financial security. Now 65 and living a life of freedom in Spain, Loraine explains that recovery begins with internal alignment, not external safety nets. She provides a roadmap for releasing past betrayals and tuning your life's "radio dial" to the frequency of abundance.

    4 Best Moments

    1. The True Definition of Forgiveness: Loraine reframes forgiveness as a gift to oneself, stating it isn't about letting an abuser off the hook, but rather "taking the hook out of your own heart" to allow for expansion.

    2. The Ho'oponopono Mantra: A look at the ancient Hawaiian practice of self-forgiveness using four simple phrases—"I’m sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you, I love you"—to clear the emotional rubble.

    3. Reframing 10,000 Failures: Using Thomas Edison as an example, Loraine explains how to neutralise the sting of failure by viewing it as "raw data" and feedback rather than a reflection of your identity.

    4. The "Up Until Now" Pattern Interrupt: Loraine introduces three magic words—"Up until now"—to instantly break the loop of self-limiting beliefs and reclaim power in the present moment

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    4 Key Takeaways

    1. Vibrational Frequency: Freedom and resentment cannot exist on the same frequency. To attract abundance, you must release the "lower vibration" of revenge and resentment.

    2. The 42% Advantage: Writing down your goals isn't just "positive thinking"; it is neurobiology. You are 42% more likely to achieve a goal by writing it down, as the physical act engages both brain hemispheres and sends an electrical signal through your nervous system.

    3. Feed the Expansion Wolf: Based on a Cherokee legend, we all have two "wolves" battling within us—Constriction (fear/greed) and Expansion (joy/love). The one that wins is the one you feed with your daily thoughts and actions.

    4. The Necessity of "Now Actions": Transformation only lives in the present. Crossing the threshold to a new life requires a "now action"—like making a call or creating a budget—even when your biology hits "DEFCON 1" and screams at you to stay in your comfort zone.

    For more insights, Loraine invites listeners to book a mentor clarity call to identify the paradigms holding them back and to support the show via "Buy Me A Coffee"

    Connect on other platforms

    Book a call

    https://linktr.ee/loraine_mms

    Ho‘oponopono Mantra for self-love and forgiveness.

    https://youtu.be/93oql29IN4c?si=JcSmaMv9ef18rV65

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    19 Min.
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