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Love Thy Neighbor Show

Love Thy Neighbor Show

Von: Tom Vann Dan Dennis and Colette Fehr
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 Love Thy Neighbor is a straight-talk relationship show from Tom Vann, Dan Dennis, and licensed therapist Colette J. Fehr - born the day Colette knocked on their door and they realized they were literal next-door neighbors. Together, they bring 50 years of broadcasting (Dan 30, Tom 20) and 15 years of clinical counseling (Colette), plus real-life reps: Tom's 20-year marriage, Dan's 15-year marriage, and Colette's second, thriving chapter. Expect humor, empathy, and practical advice from both sides of the wall. New episodes every Thursday, wherever you get your podcasts.2025 Hygiene & gesundes Leben Persönliche Entwicklung Persönlicher Erfolg Seelische & Geistige Gesundheit
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  • LTN 20 - Annoyances

    LTN 20 - Annoyances
    Feb 19 2026

    • Coordinated show opening banter

    • Colette forgets makeup and panics before recording

    • Tom provides emergency mascara from truck kit

    • Nearly hitting Colette in the parking lot while distracted

    • Busy schedules and constant business work

    • Mascara as minimum presentable look

    • Keeping emergency makeup at the studio

    • Expired mascara and pink eye risk

    • Previous emergency makeup stored in Tom vehicle

    • Fear spouse learns another woman used the makeup

    • Jokes about trust and jealousy over shared items

    • Hiding the incident and trusting audience not to tell

    • Transition into long term relationship fatigue

    • Working together increases irritation and familiarity

    • Everyone has annoying habits and blind spots

    • Over communication anxiety and being particular

    • Questioning logic behind stories and actions

    • Difficulty suspending disbelief in TV and media

    • Logic driven vs emotion driven perspectives

    • Emotions matter even when intentions were harmless

    • Apologizing without defensiveness

    • Listening to feedback to repair relationships

    • Need for space vs constant communication

    • Talking openly to maintain relationships

    • Taking criticism without immediate explanation

    • Attachment makes criticism feel threatening

    • Defensiveness driven by fear of losing connection

    • Amygdala hijack during arguments

    • Emotional expression varies even in same family

    • Personality wiring differences

    • Genetic and environmental influence on emotions

    • Emotions as biological signals tied to needs

    • Share feelings instead of yelling or blame

    • Validate emotions instead of fixing them

    • Science based explanation helps logical partners empathize

    • Emotional education improves relationships

    • Complementary strengths balance weaknesses

    • Traits that attract also annoy partners

    • Passionate vs logical intimacy differences

    • Humor about AI partners and sex robots

    • Arranged marriages lasting longer discussion

    • Unconscious attraction patterns in partner choice

    • Repeating family of origin relationship dynamics

    • Therapy helps change unhealthy attraction patterns

    • Self awareness over chemistry alone

    • Reconsidering tolerance for bad behavior

    • Promotion of relationship advice book

    • Audiobook narration quality discussion

    • Practical communication tools for couples

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  • LTN 19 - Chivalry Is Not Dead

    LTN 19 - Chivalry Is Not Dead
    Feb 12 2026
    Introduction to Love Thy Neighbor with Dan, Tom, and Colette Fair Playful debate over old school chivalry and introducing women Promoting Colette Fair podcast and her book The Cost of Quiet How traditional chivalry feels awkward to younger generations Southern manners like yes maam and holding doors Bathroom door mishaps lead to installing occupied slider sign Anxiety over helping women with heavy boxes Chivalry anxiety and overthinking polite gestures Debate: polite vs sexist door holding Observing fewer door holders in New York vs the South Chivalry as dating charm and intentional courting behavior Holding doors for everyone vs gender specific gestures Performative manners vs real respect Kids questioning equality and why boys should do extra Mixed cultural messages about equality and roles Preferring chivalry in marriage over strangers Helping with airplane luggage as practical kindness Metro dilemma over offering seat to marathon runner Safer approach: simply ask if someone wants help Generational divide over manners and equality Colette appearance on The Tamron Hall Show Airing details across ABC, CW, Hulu timing uncertainty SoHo studio experience and traditional TV production Other shows filmed there: The View, GMA, Kelly and Mark Live audience of 110 receiving her book Scale of national TV production behind the scenes Pre show nerves despite long media career All day anticipation anxiety before live events Calm once actually on stage or on camera Similar dread before hosting live beer fests Public speaking fear as herd survival instinct Exhaustion from recurring pre event anxiety Accepting that stage fear may never fully disappear Using self soothing tools from her book Live TV pressure as on call expert Feeling thrown off by unexpected questions Topic focused on mothers in law and difficult family dynamics Applying romantic communication tools to family conflict Mothers feeling threatened by sons partners Clarifying language around moving on from parents Self consciousness under studio lights Fear of underperforming on national TV Post show memory blur and replay anxiety Spontaneous audience applause as validation Rising trend of family cut offs via social media culture When cut offs are appropriate vs avoidance Emphasizing communication and boundaries first Personal hurt from longtime friend during book launch Temptation to cut off instead of confront Avoiding triangulation through mutual friends Questioning intent vs impact in conflict Accepting shift in closeness without drama Redirecting energy to reciprocal relationships Never give up mindset can prolong unhealthy ties Middle ground before full cut off Trust built through repeated repair attempts Deciding to accept relationship as is or move on Cultural narrative of sons leaving mothers for partners Anxiety among mothers of sons after marriage Advice: be warm and non judgmental to sons partner Avoid power struggles and control tactics Positive example of respectful mother in law relationship Tamron show featured repaired and permanent cut offs Tease: what to do when you are sick of your partner Book plug for The Cost of Quiet and audiobook praise Invitation for listener emails ### Social Media [https://tomanddan.com](https://tomanddan.com) [https://twitter.com/tomanddanlive](https://twitter.com/tomanddanlive) [https://facebook.com/amediocretime](https://facebook.com/amediocretime) [https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive](https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive) Tom & Dan on Real Radio 104.1 Apple Podcasts: [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-corporate-time/id975258990](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-corporate-time/id975258990) Google Podcasts: [https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2Fjb3Jwb3JhdGV0aW1lL3BvZGNhc3QueG1s](https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2Fjb3Jwb3JhdGV0aW1lL3BvZGNhc3QueG1s) TuneIn: [https://tunein.com/podcasts/Comedy/A-Corporate-Time-p1038501/](https://tunein.com/podcasts/Comedy/A-Corporate-Time-p1038501/) Exclusive Content [https://tomanddan.com/registration](https://tomanddan.com/registration)
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    46 Min.
  • LTN 18 - LIVE at The Cost of Quiet Launch

    LTN 18 - LIVE at The Cost of Quiet Launch
    Feb 5 2026
    Introduction to Love Thy Neighbor without Colette present Colette book The Cost of Quiet hits Amazon bestseller Audio from live launch at Mercedes-Benz of Maitland Professional production and full event program Feeling like misfits among polished attendees Jokes about BDM prize skunks chasing perks Being treated like novelty personalities at upscale events Riffs about fans spouses and addiction jokes Praise for Colette and continued collaboration Audiobook read by Colette and love of author narration Joke about alternate narrator Invite anonymous listener emails Colette gratitude to attendees and sponsors Book inspired by difficult first marriage and divorce Owning personal responsibility in conflicts Conflict avoidance as core relationship issue Quiet means avoiding hard talks not silence Fear of rejection driving suppressed communication Conflict framed as path to deeper connection Roadmap for regulation self awareness communication Self advocacy and empowered expression Writing easier than modern book marketing Growth through public speaking TEDx and new podcast Over 1000 books sold with traditional deal Push for presales and launch week visibility Sales about impact not profit Lessons made accessible and actionable Applies to personal and professional relationships Insights from the Couch podcast for midlife women Laura Bowman therapy focus on anxiety and midlife Menopause and perimenopause gaining attention Quiet quitting long term relationships Gen X women juggling careers parenting burnout Financial independence enabling divorce Women seeking deeper emotional engagement Emotional vulnerability key to saving relationships Rise of gray divorce led by women Self connected communication and inner mentoring Individual therapy healing underdeveloped parts Relationship with self as foundation Former office neighbors before podcast connection Humor bridging therapy and loud podcast world Love Thy Neighbor launched after guest spots Natural chemistry and balanced dynamic Humor engaging men in relationship talks Silent treatment and withdrawal as male patterns Work pressure limiting presence at home Traditional masculinity blocking vulnerability Tough guy persona tied to loneliness Regulate emotions not suppress or explode Podcast as informal therapy and growth space Praise for Colette work ethic and mission Charlotte McCullough licensed marriage therapist Media appearances on local news and TV shows Loneliness crisis inside and outside marriage Marriage cannot meet every emotional need Reciprocal friendships matter more than quantity Deep bonds over shallow surface contact Technology eroding in person community Men often lacking close friendships Balance togetherness autonomy and alone time Build friendships through small daily connections Schedule friendship time including Zoom hangouts Time limited prioritize loved ones Keisha Scott behavioral health and podcasting Guardian Recovery adolescent program Teen brain development and weak prefrontal cortex Social media nonstop comparison pressure Parenting pendulum from harsh to gentle toward balance Over parenting causing failure to launch Cost of quiet applied to parenting Avoiding discipline breeds resentment and risk Create safe space with real consequences Small communication tweaks transform parent teen bonds Teach expression alongside resilience Raise grit in a comfort driven world Teen mental health crucial for future wellbeing Initiate vulnerable honest conversations Difficult talks framed as care Change patterns by showing up differently Send safe signals to invite warmth Closing gratitude and call to apply lessons ### Social Media [https://tomanddan.com](https://tomanddan.com) [https://twitter.com/tomanddanlive](https://twitter.com/tomanddanlive) [https://facebook.com/amediocretime](https://facebook.com/amediocretime) [https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive](https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive) Tom & Dan on Real Radio 104.1 Apple Podcasts: [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-corporate-time/id975258990](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-corporate-time/id975258990) Google Podcasts: [https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2Fjb3Jwb3JhdGV0aW1lL3BvZGNhc3QueG1s](https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2Fjb3Jwb3JhdGV0aW1lL3BvZGNhc3QueG1s) TuneIn: [https://tunein.com/podcasts/Comedy/A-Corporate-Time-p1038501/](https://tunein.com/podcasts/Comedy/A-Corporate-Time-p1038501/) Exclusive Content [https://tomanddan.com/registration](https://tomanddan.com/registration)
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    49 Min.
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