You’re Not Unlucky in Love – You’re Repeating a Pattern

In this episode of Love Hacks, we unpack the idea that you’re not “unlucky” in love – you’re replaying a story you learned a long time ago. We talk about how your self-image quietly chooses who you swipe on, what you tolerate, and why you keep ending up with the same kind of person in a different body.

We’ll look at the difference between wanting a healthy relationship and actually living like someone who can hold one: from the places you show up, to the emotional climate your body mistakes for “chemistry”, to the way you set (or avoid) boundaries.

If you’ve ever thought “maybe I’m cursed in love” or “maybe it’s just not for me”, this episode will help you see your patterns as information, not a verdict — and start making small shifts that make real love more reachable.

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Summary

In this episode of Love Hacks, we explore a question many women carry quietly: “If I’m very sexual, am I losing my value?” We talk about the difference between performative sex and real pleasure, how people-pleasing shows up in the bedroom, and why feeling “used” often has more to do with abandoning yourself than with the fact that you had sex. You’ll learn how to make sexual choices that feel good for you, how to slow things down when your body needs it, and how to stop treating sex like an audition for love. This isn’t about rules or timelines — it’s about owning your desire without giving up your power.

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Most dating advice confuses “power” with pretending not to care.

In this episode, we unpack a different approach: how to show real interest without losing your emotional power.

We talk about:

•why it’s healthy to inspire someone to keep choosing you through small, everyday gestures,

•how to treat your level of interest as something dynamic, not a fixed sentence,

•what it looks like to be emotionally self-sufficient instead of needy,

•why it’s riskier to settle for someone incompatible than to “scare off” a match by being honest,

•and the core truth: indifference isn’t strength — your standards are.

If you’re tired of either chasing or shutting down to protect yourself, this episode will help you find a third option: showing up fully, without abandoning yourself.

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