Want a clearer path from hesitation to real confidence? We sat down with Kevin McNulty—international speaker, author of The Gap Between Two Worlds, and former Air Force human relations advisor—to unpack how men actually grow: not by shouting louder, but by building skills, shifting mindsets, and moving through uncertainty with intention.

Kevin shares powerful stories from a military childhood to mission-critical work inside the Air Force, where “soft skills” like trust, communication, and respect determined whether teams could repair aircraft and execute under pressure. He also pulls back the curtain on Tops In Blue, a touring, high-performance entertainment unit where big egos met bigger accountability—and where he learned how elite teams blend assertiveness with humility.

Together we break the false binaries that keep men stuck. Masculinity isn’t a rigid mask; leadership isn’t a fixed pose. They’re spectrums you can navigate. You’ll hear practical ways to step out of passivity without becoming aggressive, and to temper dominance with compassion you can practice, even before you feel it. We map the fog of transition using Kevin’s “gap” lens and the GROW model—Goal, Reality, Options/Obstacles, Way forward—so you can set a direction, take small steps, and let action thin the fog. We also explore strategic detours: when to revisit fundamentals, when to ask better questions, and when to make the call and hold your line.

Connect with Kevin -

• X: @kevinspeaks2u
• LI: @kevinmcnultspeaks
• FB: @kevinrichardmcnulty
• IG: kevinmcnultyspeaks
• LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty

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