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Kind of a Big Deal

Kind of a Big Deal

Von: Kristin Belden
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Ever brushed off a compliment? Downplayed a win? Made yourself smaller so you wouldn’t sound like “too much”? Yeah, me too.


Kind of a Big Deal is my love letter to women building careers and lives they’re proud of. This isn’t your typical Fortune 500 CEO interview. Instead, it’s real, relatable conversations with everyday women - corporate baddies, scrappy entrepreneurs, and everyone in between - who are leading lives we can all aspire to.


Through honest stories and hard-earned wisdom, we shine a light on the victories, the lessons, and the messy middle that rarely make the highlight reel. It’s about celebrating the impact women make (even when we’re tempted to shrug it off).


Because the truth is: you are kind of a big deal.

© 2026 Kind of a Big Deal
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  • Stop Waiting Until You Feel Ready
    Mar 5 2026

    Join me as I sit down with strategic consultant Kyla Bryant, whose work centers on leadership, workforce development, and helping organizations build people-first systems.

    Kyla’s leadership philosophy started on prom day at a cosmetology school when she raised her hand to organize a chaotic situation she hadn’t been trained for. That moment became the foundation for a mindset she still carries today: it’s easier to steer a moving ship.

    Over the course of her career, Kyla has worked across multiple sectors, from education and workforce development to consulting and entrepreneurship. Along the way, she’s learned that leadership rarely comes from feeling fully prepared - it comes from stepping forward when something needs to be done.

    We talk about entrepreneurship, perfectionism, the pressure many women carry to have everything figured out, and how success can evolve from external markers to something much deeper: feeling grounded in who you are and the work you’re building.

    You’ll Learn:

    ⭐ Why leadership often begins before you feel ready
    ⭐ How momentum can create clarity when the path feels uncertain
    ⭐ Why reflection is critical for entrepreneurs and leaders
    ⭐ The difference between hustle and sustainable flow
    ⭐ How defining success evolves over the course of a career

    Key Insights

    Momentum Creates Clarity
    Waiting until you feel fully prepared often keeps you stuck. Taking action - even imperfect action - allows you to adjust course as you move forward.

    Reflection Builds Perspective
    Regular reflection helps leaders recognize progress, learn from patterns, and avoid constantly chasing the next milestone.

    Entrepreneurship Requires Internal Leadership
    When you work for yourself, you must become both the strategist and the accountability partner.

    Flow vs Hustle
    Sustainable success comes from working in alignment with your natural rhythms and priorities - not constant pressure or overwork.

    Success Evolves Over Time
    Early in our careers, success often looks like titles or income. Over time, many leaders redefine success as feeling grounded, aligned, and purposeful in their work.

    Timestamps

    [00:00:00] – Introduction to Kyla Bryant
    [00:03:00] – Early leadership instincts and growing up the oldest sibling
    [00:04:30] – Starting out in cosmetology and discovering leadership
    [00:06:00] – Seeing opportunity before feeling ready
    [00:08:00] – Early career uncertainty and the pressure to have answers
    [00:10:00] – Perfectionism, parenthood, and learning to let go of control
    [00:15:00] – The path to entrepreneurship
    [00:18:00] – Strategic guidance rooted in empathy
    [00:22:00] – Workforce systems and people-first leadership
    [00:24:00] – Building structure and reflection as a solopreneur
    [00:29:00] – The reality of working for yourself
    [00:32:00] – Hustle culture vs sustainable flow
    [00:37:00] – Redefining success over time
    [00:43:00] – What legacy means for Kyla

    Resources and Links

    Connect with Kyla Bryant and check out her work at https://kylabryantllc.com/

    Find host Kristin Belden on LinkedIn or at BeldenStrategies.com

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    46 Min.
  • Curiosity Is a Leadership Strategy
    Mar 4 2026

    Join me as I sit down with Shonna Shearson, President and CEO of First U.S. Community Credit Union, whose leadership journey is anything but a straight line.

    Shonna began her career thinking she might become a teacher, eventually moving into training and development before discovering the cooperative world of credit unions - an industry rooted in community, financial empowerment, and collective impact.

    Over the course of decades, she built her leadership career not by chasing titles, but by staying curious, being of service, and saying yes to opportunities to grow.

    We talk about nonlinear careers, the power of mentorship and peer communities, the role curiosity plays in long-term leadership growth, and what it means to build a legacy by developing the people around you.


    You’ll Learn:

    ⭐ How curiosity can become one of the most powerful leadership skills
    ⭐ The cooperative model behind credit unions and why it matters for communities
    ⭐ How mentorship and peer networks shape leadership growth
    ⭐ Why service - not ambition alone - often leads to meaningful success


    Key Insights:

    Curiosity Drives Growth:
    Leaders who stay curious about systems, decisions, and processes often uncover opportunities for innovation and impact.

    Service Creates Opportunity:
    Focusing on how you can contribute - rather than how you advance - often opens doors to leadership naturally.

    Careers Are Nonlinear:
    Few people can predict where their careers will lead. Remaining open to unexpected opportunities allows growth to unfold over time.

    Community Shapes Leadership:
    Mentors, peers, and professional communities often play a critical role in leadership development.

    Legacy Is About Developing Others:
    True leadership impact isn’t just about personal success - it’s about helping others grow into leaders themselves.

    Timestamps:

    [00:00:00] – Introduction to Shauna and Leadership Sacramento
    [00:03:00] – Early career uncertainty and choosing teaching
    [00:06:00] – Discovering training and development
    [00:08:00] – Finding purpose in the credit union movement
    [00:12:00] – Why credit unions exist and how they serve communities
    [00:18:00] – Staying curious inside long careers
    [00:21:00] – Service as a leadership mindset
    [00:24:00] – Ambition vs meaningful success
    [00:26:00] – Career seasons and raising young children
    [00:27:30] – Becoming a yoga teacher during the Great Recession
    [00:30:30] – Mentorship and peer communities
    [00:35:00] – Defining leadership legacy

    Resources and Links:

    Learn more about First U.S. Community Credit Union

    Find host Kristin Belden on LinkedIn or at BeldenStrategies.com

    Sign up for more conversations and insights at
    BeldenStrategies.com/newsletter

    If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, follow the show, and leave a review.

    And if you're interested in more conversations about leadership, evolution, and building meaningful work, join my newsletter at BeldenStrategies.com/ newsletter.

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    39 Min.
  • Burnout Is a Signal - Not a Weakness: A More Sustainable Way to Lead
    Feb 26 2026

    Join me as I sit down with psychologist and leadership development consultant Dr. Christina Pate, whose work explores the intersection of human behavior, organizational culture, and sustainable performance.

    Christina’s path into this work began with her own experience of burnout - not as something to push through, but as information that something deeper was misaligned. Since then, she has focused on helping leaders and organizations understand how nervous system patterns, identity pressures, and workplace expectations shape how we perform, lead, and sustain ourselves over time.

    We talk about over-functioning, identity beyond roles, the pressure many women leaders carry to hold more than their share, and what it means to build lives and organizations that support wellbeing rather than quietly erode it.

    This is a thoughtful conversation about leadership, sustainability, complexity, and learning to build success that can actually last.

    You’ll Learn:

    ⭐ Why burnout is often a signal of misalignment - not a personal failure
    ⭐ How leadership mirrors the way we lead ourselves
    ⭐ The role of nervous system awareness in sustainable performance
    ⭐ The difference between scalable success and sustainable success
    ⭐ Why holding complexity is a modern leadership skill

    Key Insights:

    Burnout as Information:
    Burnout often reveals misalignment between values, identity, expectations, and systems - not a lack of resilience.

    Leadership Starts Internally:
    The way we regulate stress, set boundaries, and relate to uncertainty shapes how we lead others.

    Sustainable vs Scalable Success:
    Organizations frequently optimize for growth and output without building the internal conditions required for people to thrive.

    Nervous System Awareness Changes Leadership:
    Stress responses influence decision-making, communication, and capacity long before conscious strategy.

    Identity Beyond Roles:
    Career disruption, burnout, and transition often surface deeper questions about identity and purpose.

    Complexity Over Certainty:
    Modern leadership requires the ability to hold nuance, reject binary thinking, and operate in ambiguity.

    Timestamps:

    [00:00:00] – Introduction and meeting through LEAP Academy
    [00:03:00] – Early burnout and redefining success
    [00:07:00] – Burnout as signal, not failure
    [00:12:00] – Leadership as a mirror of self-leadership
    [00:18:00] – Over-functioning and invisible responsibility
    [00:25:00] – Disruption, grief, and rebuilding frameworks
    [00:28:00] – Nervous system awareness and leadership
    [00:33:00] – Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses
    [00:38:00] – Rejecting binary thinking and holding complexity
    [00:41:00] – Identity shifts and the future of work
    [00:44:00] – Micro practices for regulation and sustainability
    [00:47:00] – Legacy as sustainability, not scale

    Resources and Links:

    Connect with Dr. Christina Pate

    Learn more about her leadership development work

    Take Christina’s stress response quiz

    Find host Kristin Belden on LinkedIn or at BeldenStrategies.com

    Sign up for more conversations and insights at BeldenStrategies.com/newsletter

    If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, follow the show, and leave a review.
    And if you’re interested in more conversations about leadership, identity, and building sustainable success, join my newsletter at BeldenStrategies.com

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    51 Min.
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