What happens when we only allow ourselves love after we’ve performed, achieved, or held it all together?

In this spoken reflection, we explore the emotional cost of conditional self-love — the quiet ways it shapes our identity, drains our energy, and teaches us to earn rest, worth, and softness.

This episode isn’t about fixing yourself.
It’s about noticing the patterns that keep you striving and gently questioning who you’d be if love didn’t come with conditions.

Take a breath.
Listen slowly.
You’re allowed to be here as you are.

Keisha Denise | Keisha’s House

*** First Episode Coming 13 January 2026***

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Because sometimes the clarity you’re searching for isn’t found by running faster — it’s found by listening deeper.
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