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In this episode, Colleen reframes one of the biggest misunderstandings about drinking: it's not one behavior — it's a collection of hundreds of habits shaped by context, environment, relationships, and emotional states.

Many women believe their drinking defines who they are because they identify with their worst moments. But emotional sobriety requires a more nuanced understanding. The way you drink when you're alone may be completely different from how you drink socially, with family, or during high-stimulation environments — and each context activates different neural pathways, roles, and protective patterns.

Colleen shares a personal example from a recent holiday gathering where old habits resurfaced despite years of progress. Instead of interpreting it as failure, she approached it as data — an opportunity to reconnect with a younger protective part of herself and practice intentional, mindful drinking strategies.

🔑 Key Takeaways

• Why drinking is not one habit, but hundreds of context-driven behaviors
  
  

• How identifying with your worst drinking moments keeps you stuck
  
  

• Why old neural pathways don't disappear — they reactivate in familiar environments
  
  

• The difference between mindful drinking and autopilot drinking
  
  

• How roles and code-switching influence alcohol use around specific people
  
  

• Why positive goals ("drink mindfully") work better than avoidance goals ("don't overdo it")

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You think your cravings are a willpower problem. They're not. You think if you could just think differently, you'd drink differently. And that's exactly why nothing has worked.

In this episode, I'm breaking down why the urge to drink starts in your body — not your brain — and giving you three red flags that your drinking is actually a symptom of something most high-achieving women refuse to look at.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• The litmus test that reveals whether you can actually "take it or leave it" (be honest with yourself on this one)

• Why saying you're "not an emotional person" is the most dangerous thing you can believe about yourself

• Three everyday behaviors that are quietly dysregulating your nervous system — and setting you up to overdrink by evening

• The science of why you can't stop at two (it's called the biphasic line, and once you understand it, everything clicks)

• Why you wake up at 3am full of self-loathing — and why that voice isn't really you

• What's actually happening in your body between 6am and 6pm that makes evening-you a completely different person than morning-you

• Why "trying harder" is aimed at the wrong part of your brain

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In this episode, Colleen continues sharing takeaways from her retreat with Dr. Amanda Hanson (midlifemuse) — and she names something that sits underneath so much of women's drinking, overgiving, perfectionism, and burnout: conditioning.

Not just childhood conditioning — cultural conditioning.

Colleen explains how patriarchy functions like an invisible rulebook: the expectations women follow without ever agreeing to them. Be good. Be pleasant. Be grateful. Don't be angry. Don't be too much. Don't embarrass anyone. Don't need too much. Don't take up space. Don't make people uncomfortable.

And over time, those rules don't just shape behavior — they create trauma. They train women to silence their truth, distrust their instincts, and prioritize everyone else's emotional experience over their own. And when a woman is disconnected from her needs, her voice, and her power, escapism becomes inevitable.

That's why Colleen connects this conversation directly to emotional sobriety: freedom isn't just about alcohol. It's about ending self-abandonment, taking radical ownership of your emotional life, and becoming the kind of woman who can handle discomfort without shrinking, pleasing, or numbing.

🔑 Key Takeaways

• How culture trains women to abandon themselves to stay safe
  
  

• Why patriarchy is a trauma system, not a debate topic
  
  

• How women unconsciously enforce the rules by judging other women
  
  

• Why "going along to get along" is survival, not character
  
  

• How escapism becomes the nervous system's only outlet
  
  

• Why emotional sobriety requires self-trust more than self-control
  
  

• The reframe: not "tear it down," but rise into power
  
  

This is a reminder that you're not here to become a "better woman."

You're here to become a Free woman.

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