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  • What they didn’t tell us: Navigating Life as Black Gen X without a Blueprint

    What they didn’t tell us: Navigating Life as Black Gen X without a Blueprint
    Jan 6 2026
    What happens when you’re taught how to survive—but never shown how to build?

    As a member of Black Generation X, I grew up surrounded by people who did “everything right.” College degrees. Military service. Long careers inside structured systems. Success was modeled through discipline, resilience, and endurance—but no one ever explained how to navigate life outside those systems.

    In this episode, I reflect on what it meant to come of age as part of a bridge generation—one that benefited from the sacrifices of the Silent Generation and Baby Boomers, yet entered a world they had never experienced themselves. We were prepared for adversity, but often left without a blueprint for thriving in unstructured spaces like entrepreneurship, ownership, and self-creation.
    I talk about:
    • How generational influence quietly shaped expectations
    • Why structure felt like safety—and how that became a limitation
    • The shock of leaving institutional systems later in life
    • The difference between survival skills and thriving skills
    • What I want younger generations to understand so they don’t have to “figure it out alone”

    This is not about blame. It’s about context, awareness, and legacy.

    If you’re Black Gen X—or a first-generation professional navigating unfamiliar territory—this conversation will resonate.What happens when you’re taught how to survive—but never shown how to build?

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    19 Min.
  • Welcome to 2026: How to Navigate the Anthony Reeves Experience

    Welcome to 2026: How to Navigate the Anthony Reeves Experience
    Jan 1 2026
    Welcome to 2026.
    This episode isn’t about promoting a platform—it’s about helping you navigate an experience.
    Over time, many people discover my work through videos, podcasts, blogs, or social media, but they’re often left wondering: Where do I start? How should I engage? Which space is actually meant for me?
    In this episode, I break down what The Anthony Reeves Experience really is—and more importantly, how you can engage in a way that fits how you consume content.
    We talk about:
    • Why perspective matters more than performance
    • How to choose between listening, watching, or reading
    • Where memberships fit into the ecosystem—and why they exist
    • How to avoid the noise and move with more clarity
    • Why this experience is as much about your voice as it is mine


    This is an orientation episode. A reset. A starting point for 2026.
    Whether you’re new here or you’ve been around for a while, this episode is an invitation to engage intentionally and move forward with clarity.

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    8 Min.
  • Why My 24-Hour Bus Ride Shocked My Friends

    Why My 24-Hour Bus Ride Shocked My Friends
    Dec 8 2025
    In this episode, I dive into a powerful reminder that what’s normal for you isn’t always normal for everyone else.

    A recent conversation with a friend sparked this reflection on how people often become fascinated—or even stunned—when they witness the sacrifices you’ve made to reach a goal they can’t relate to. And for many of us who grew up Black Gen X, first-generation, or navigating worlds not built with us in mind, those sacrifices weren’t extraordinary… they were just our norm.

    I share the story of taking two of my college friends with me from Tampa, Florida to Pine Bluff, Arkansas on a 24-hour Greyhound bus ride—a journey filled with transfers, long stretches of silence, heavy luggage, and the determination of someone paying his own way through an affluent PWI.

    My friends were used to flying. They were used to comfort, ease, and speed.But for the first time, they saw what my reality looked like.They saw the cost of my dream.And they realized that my “normal” was something they had never even imagined.

    This episode is about travel—but it’s also about class, race, adaptation, resilience, and the invisible work so many of us put in to make our goals possible.
    If you’ve ever had to do whatever it took—even when others couldn’t understand why—you’ll feel this one.
    📣 Call to Action
    If this story resonated with you, share your own “different norm” moment. And don’t forget to follow the show for more reflections, life lessons, and Gen X storytelling.

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    15 Min.
  • First Generation in Affluent Spaces: The Untold Black Gen X Experience

    First Generation in Affluent Spaces: The Untold Black Gen X Experience
    Dec 1 2025
    What does it really mean to be first generation?Not the version we celebrate on paper — but the hidden reality behind stepping into a world your family has never seen.

    In this episode, I share my personal journey entering an affluent private PWI in 1987 as a Black Gen Xer.

    From culture shock and resource gaps to the weight of being “the only one,” this story goes deeper than the milestone itself. It’s about navigating spaces without a blueprint, confronting imposter syndrome, and discovering how our generation became the blueprint for those who followed.
    If you’ve ever been the first to walk a path no one prepared you for, this episode is for you.

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    21 Min.
  • I Bet On Myself: The Day I Walked Away From Everything Safe.

    I Bet On Myself: The Day I Walked Away From Everything Safe.
    Nov 21 2025
    WHat does it really feel like to walk away from everything safe?In this episode, I share one of the most pivotal moments of my life — the day I resigned my commission in the U.S. Navy, packed my entire world into a car, and drove toward a future I couldn’t predict.
    Most people call transitions like this “starting over,” but that’s not the truth.You’re not starting over — you’re starting fresh in unfamiliar territory, carrying all the lessons, scars, discipline, and wisdom from every chapter you’ve survived.

    In 1998, I left a stable military career, a strong professional network, and a solid identity to take a risk on myself and attend Florida State University College of Law. What followed was a battle between comfort and calling, between fear and purpose, and between the life I knew and the future I hoped for.
    This episode walks through:
    • Why safety can become a cage
    • How imposter syndrome tries to talk you out of your dreams
    • The quiet, unglamorous reality of major life transitions
    • The emotional turmoil of driving toward the unknown
    • The unexpected blessing that confirmed I was on the right path
    • Why starting fresh doesn’t erase your past — it elevates it

    If you’ve ever stood at a crossroads — knowing that comfort is killing your growth, but fear is holding you back — this episode is for you.
    Your next chapter won’t wait on your comfort.Sometimes the strongest thing you can do… is bet on you.

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    19 Min.
  • When the Club No Longer Fits — Becoming a Young Black Professional and Finding Your Space

    When the Club No Longer Fits — Becoming a Young Black Professional and Finding Your Space
    Nov 18 2025
    When you turn 21, the club feels like arrival. It’s the symbol of adulthood, freedom, identity, and validation. But at some point, the music, the crowd, and the performance stop aligning with who you’re becoming — and that’s where the real journey starts.

    In this episode, Anthony Reeves, Esq. breaks down the unspoken transition many young Black professionals experience: evolving beyond nightlife culture, entering academic and professional environments, searching for culturally aligned peers, and finally discovering authentic community.
    From the club scene… to graduate school… to exploring exclusive spaces… and ultimately finding real belonging through a military network — this story offers a blueprint for what professional growth looks like behind the scenes, not just online or on paper.

    THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF: • You’re in your 20s or 30s and feel like you’ve outgrown old spaces • You’re educated, ambitious, or career-driven but unsure where you belong • You want connection with peers who share culture, vision, and values • You feel like you’re evolving — but don’t know where it’s leading • You’re searching for community that feels natural, not performative

    KEY THEMES: • Why clubs feel like the starting point of adulthood • The moment nightlife stops matching professional growth • How graduate school shifts identity and expectations • The illusion of exclusivity in upscale social spaces • The frustration of trying to locate “your people” • How aligned spaces are found — not advertised • Community as a growth catalyst, not a social activity

    QUOTE TO REMEMBER:
    “You don’t evolve to impress new rooms — you evolve to recognize the rooms that were already meant for you.”


    CALL TO ACTION

    If this message speaks to your spirit, share it with someone who’s evolving, searching, or feeling disconnected. Rate the show, leave a review, and join the mission of building spaces where young Black professionals don’t just enter the room… they belong in it.

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    27 Min.
  • The confusing part of Racism for Black Gen X: Navigating a New World with Old Landmines

    The confusing part of Racism for Black Gen X: Navigating a New World with Old Landmines
    Nov 14 2025
    In this episode, I break down one of the most overlooked realities of growing up Black as a member of Generation X — the confusing part of racism. Not because racism itself is confusing, but because the presentation of racism changed between our parents’ world and ours.

    Our parents and grandparents grew up with laws, signs, institutions, and culture that made second-class citizenship undeniable. They didn’t have to guess if racism was present — it announced itself.
    But Black Gen X came of age in a world where the signs were gone, the laws had changed, and the country insisted that things were different.

    Except the people who enforced those old systems?They were still here.And their attitudes didn’t change just because the laws did.

    This episode explores:
    • What it meant to grow up between two racial realities
    • How Black Gen X entered integrated spaces without the survival guide our parents had
    • The cafeteria moment when someone asked, “Why are you all segregating yourselves?”
    • The professional moment where I was told, “I’m surprised you’d think that way as an educated Black man”
    • Why microaggressions became emotional landmines
    • The generational disconnect between “We’ve moved forward” and “Be careful out there”
    • And why moments like George Floyd’s death revealed how long America ignored Black voices

    For Black Gen X, racism wasn’t predictable anymore. It wasn’t a sign on the door or a slur shouted from a porch. It was a question. A comment. A moment that made you pause and ask, “Did that just happen?”

    This is the story of growing up in that space — of learning how to navigate a world that promised equality but still carried hidden dangers.

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    18 Min.
  • NOW YOU KNOW: The Untold Burden of Gen X — Racism, Family, and the “Sign of the Times

    NOW YOU KNOW: The Untold Burden of Gen X — Racism, Family, and the “Sign of the Times
    Nov 11 2025
    This 20-minute audio reflection pulls back the curtain on my IN THE KNOW video “Sign of the Times.” I share personal insights about the realities Gen X faced growing up between parents divided by the Jim Crow experience. For many White Gen Xers, that meant dealing with relatives whose biases still lingered. For Black Gen Xers, it meant hearing stories of survival and injustice at the dinner table. In this behind-the-scenes conversation, I talk about how those family histories shaped our generation’s silence, empathy, and evolution.

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    23 Min.